sticky and irritating situation -_- help please

[Shady Kaity]

lol how so?

 

[uTranceMe]

Sounds toxic. You should all go your separate ways.

 

[Shady Kaity]

yeahh it basically is toxic...
But IDK theres just something that keeps pulling me back to him, like its so hard to leave him and i dont know why.
I feel like maybe school might help our relationship? for the last 11 months we've spent basically every day together. and if hes not working, were together.
but now we both have college. his schedule is from 2-8pm and mine is from 6-9. so its like more time a part...IDK i just keep hoping that things will get better.
BUT, since I have started college now, I am keeping myself open to guys and just people in general, not to say im actively looking for a new relationship, but if something were to come along that I feel would be better for me and such, I just might take it..who knows..

And now, my friend Chelsea has moved in to my house with me and my son and my mother, and Chelsea and my boyfriend HATE each other. so hes always complaining and talking badly about her, and its highly irritating. He tries to say that, shes going to tear us apart, but I try to explain to him that his immature actions are whats going to push me away, and he still jsut blames it all on her...
I guess I'm just going to try and see how it plays out, that is, if I can deal with the circumstances for much longer...

 

[tender lamb shank]

Of course it's hard to leave him. Breaking it off with somebody you still feel heaps for is just part of the life experience. You'll be better off for it down the track. It's like ripping off a bandaid, do it quickly or the relationship will just die a long horrible death

 

[Mel22]

BUT, since I have started college now, I am keeping myself open to guys and just people in general, not to say im actively looking for a new relationship, but if something were to come along that I feel would be better for me and such, I just might take it..who knows..

If this is the case, then I feel that you should probably leave him now. It sounds like you're scared of being alone?

I don't feel that it's in your best interests to jump straight into a new relationship, sounds like you need some time to focus on yourself to sort some things out. Stability and the ability to stand on your own two feet is a highly beneficial not only for yourself, but your son also.

Good luck.

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

I remember commenting on the previous thread - that paragraph is HUGE with no breaks - if being with this guy is THAT much effort, it's time to move on, and learn some lessons from this relationship, aye.

I'm not even gonna comment on it anymore that that...partly because I didn't read it