Step 1: Unmanageability, Question 7

Do I consider the needs of others? What effect has my lack of consideration had on my relationships?

03/18/10 9:41 AM


I think I can honestly say that I consider the needs of others more than most people I encounter in my day-to-day. I am a rather compassionate and empathetic person but lately I have been a little down because of other people’s pain. Mostly, imagining what someone is going through is what is most painful for the simple fact that I think of worst case scenarios that are most likely unrealistic.

Lack of consideration is essentially self-centeredness/selfishness. I can be very analytical and typically consider as many variables in a situation concerning interactions with people in order to eliminate confusion, misunderstanding and unnecessary hassle/aggravation.

I was VERY inconsiderate (to say the least) in my addiction. I didn’t consider ANY of the known consequences, ANY effect on the people in my life my using had, or anything beyond the need to get high.
 
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