^makes sense
I think I know what might have happened here, miscommunication due to this being a thread and one can't 'get' the feeling of words and phrases sometimes as we are not face to face or can't hear the tone of each others voice in our comments.
Mayas comment might have seemed judgmental and dogmatic even though I strongly doubt that was her intention and she is only doing her job by promoting harm reduction.
we should be responsible for ourselves and practice safe sex all the time.
Which resulted in ilikestims response:
educate people and let them make their own decision. no one "should" do anything.
(I personally think people are human and are not perfect and shouldn’t be judged. '...Safe sex all the time' is the correct response but it is a strong response and sometimes not a viable answer for a lot of individuals)
I'd like to see the stats of lets say the
older generation who have went through their entire life and never had sex without using a condom. I'm thinking the numbers are going to be pretty low.
Get tested or don’t OP it is your choice, it doesn't affect my life, it is also other peoples choice to have unsafe sex with you. (HIV and or HCV infected babies is another sad story, or ones which have gone blind due to their mothers having herpes or whatever, sorry I digress)
Personally I’d like to get tested, to know. You will be fine as you know the chances are low.
Even keep some condoms and even some PEP drugs at hand if you can, whats the harm? But I am not preaching and telling you what to do, sometimes its risk what make you feel alive.
However, you might want to ask yourself whether your energetic previous posts were purely just to make your point or to maybe mask some small fear or a seed of doubt you have, maybe even subconscieously - I don't know, what do I know?
Take it easy
Good luck - it's all good
p.s I wont comment on your comment regarding 'as long you're not partaking in sex with druggies' as you seem a lot more intelligent than that and I feel it was posted in the heat of the moment.