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Starting Over.

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jeah

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I am reaching for an old community. I need some advice. I am re-enrolled in college and this far have 3 "A"'s. just got out of tumultuous 12 year relationship. I need BL help. ideas, thoughts, opinions. Love.
 
What do you really need advice about?
Congrats on the good marks so far ... that's awesome! I guess I'd recommend continuing working hard at college. Maybe focus on work as well? (I don't know if you have a job or not.) Concentrate on what you REALLY care about and what you really want to do!
 
Congratulations on re enrollment and your good marks! I love school and learning. It's a hobby of mine and helps occupy my mind.

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through a tough time because of the break up. Twelve years is a long time and it's so hard to just leave certain things behind if your lives were intertwined.

My advice is to focus on what YOU want. Do things for yourself that reinforce what a great person you are. Whatever healthy activity makes you happy or occupies your time- go for it. Like I mentioned earlier, school is a great distraction. What else do you like to do for yourself? Do you like any sports? Exercise? Cooking? Writing? The possibilities are endless. Take this time to focus on yourself. It will take time, but you will heal <3
 
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