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Some helpful info on why your not getting the women...

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Markomarkh

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If you are one of those guys struggling out there, look at this:-

1. You lack confidence

Deep down, you don’t believe you were meant to have sex with women you find attractive. You don’t think you have any qualities that would attract women. You’re in a bookstore and an attractive woman makes eye contact with you. Instead of smiling back, you quickly look away worrying that you’ll offend her by staring or that you’ll creep her out. You’ve been rejected a few times and you’d much rather spend your time on PlentyOfFish or OKcupid looking for love because you’re deathly afraid of another woman shooting you down and breaking your fragile ego.

2. You neglect your looks and hygiene

Every man has the ability to improve his looks. Whether its getting a haircut that suits your face, getting rid of your acne, whitening your teeth or wearing deodorant and showering regularly. It’s astounding the number of men who don’t give a damn about how they look. Women have a highly developed sense of smell and no matter how tight your game is, if you stink you are not getting laid. If your breath reeks, you’re not getting any. Genital hygiene is important too. Trim your pubes, put some baby powder down there if you’ve had a long day and might be getting laid.

3. You neglect your physical fitness

You don’t go to the gym and as a result, you either look unhealthy or aesthetically displeasing to a woman’s eye. Working out makes you feel better, and having a bit of muscle on you as well as a six pack can only add points to your looks. I’m a firm believer in working out and looking physically good. There are women who will be turned on just by your aesthetic appearance.
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http://thoughtcatalog.com/chris-haven/2014/02/10-reasons-you-dont-get-laid/
 
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I don't like links

Tell us treezy, what did the author say? How do we meet single girls in our area/grow dicks to twelve inches/be a millionaire by 30?
 
summary: you're not getting laid because you're a shy, ugly, smelly, fat, ignorant, over-polite, grabby, socially-awkward, insular, lazy, porn-obsessed loser.

brilliant!

alasdair
 
Some of its true, not all of it, I know smelly lazy people who are married or got a partner. Plus it forgets social anxiety or mental health or psychological reasons. For me it's staying in most the time, lack of confidence and addicted to my iPad.
 
There are about a gazillion articles around about stuff like this. This article is no different than the majority of stuff you read on the Internet. Use your common sense and be a decent person and you'll be fine!
 
I propose a new rule that PUA links and articles should be reserved for 4 chan and the like...

Like dude there was this 8/10 in the club standing by her friend that was maybe only a 7.5 so I went over cold approached them both like a phuckin alpha. I introduced myself and kind of negged the cute one but her friend wasn't really feeling my approach and AHHH JUSST BLOW MY HEAD OFF WITH A FUCKING SAWED OFF SHOTGUN!!!

The end.
 
alasdairm said:
summary: you're not getting laid because you're a shy, ugly, smelly, fat, ignorant, over-polite, grabby, socially-awkward, insular, lazy, porn-obsessed loser.
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=D

Does it also mention about getting out and not spending so much time on the internet?
 
swampdragon said:
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Does it also mention about getting out and not spending so much time on the internet?
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You mean trolling internet fora won't get you laid?

But seriously, this is like common sense shit. And the only ones that really matter are 1 and 2. You can slide a little on 3 as long as you don't look like Manbearpig's long lost brother.

Does the article mention preying on women with low self-confidence? J/K, but I think having female friends also ups your chances a bit. You know, just to show that you're not just preying on women, plus it shows that you have a bit of character to ya.

Just my two cents.
 
This article is stupid IMO. My current boyfriend is the most amazing, loving, sweet and HILARIOUS guy I have ever met (plus he's gorgeous to boot - think Kurt Cobain crossed with Ryan Dunn... omg. SWOON) BUT he is shy, socially awkward, never gets his hair cut and doesn't go to the gym. He's at University and has barely any spare money after his bills are paid.
Maybe if you are going for high maintenance, preppy,bitchy women, then this article may be relevant, but for the rest of us normal women, all we look for is love, respect and mutual interests. Thats about as simple as it gets. Maybe some people are looking for companionship in all the wrong places....
 
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