so sick of this!! how do I deal!

[needachange]

Please someone tell me how to handle things and what you can say because its no use. Im on methadone, i didnt know when i came off oxycontin back in jan 27/09 that my cycle gets reset and i can easily get pregnant. Fast forward, managed to beat down cas (childrens aid society) because im clean, have all my carry's all on a pam and a antideprressant. Living with what i thought was a friend. constantly belittles me. says all i do is sleep but must of all im still a fucking junky at that fucking loser place i need to go to every week. you can pm for more private details i have nothing to hide im not perfect. But I have my baby thats 2 and a half for a reason. Im moving out and now im getting such bad shit i cant explain.....Im a horrible mom, i do nothing, this person has raised her????? im pretty sure i went to the hosptial bank n forth for 7 weeks to breast-feed on the ttc and had my own place untill she was 8 months old then this brilliant idea. i dont even care anymore but what can i say when these people are not perfect but insult me always...........I dont care anymore, but i just want a comeback thats says fuck off leave us alone. butt i dont want to make enemies cuz people are evil.???

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[georgeohwell1984]

I'm sure you're feeling very emotional at the moment but if you could read over your post I hope you can realise it's hard to understand what you're saying.

I mean, what is it that you seek from the community?

Do you want us to tell you how to kick your methadone habit?
How to deal with difficult friends?

Warmest regards.

 

[Swimmingdancer]

I would say the best solution is to try not to let your friend's opinions get to you and to try to stay calm and polite but distance yourself from this person. Getting in an argument is not going to help anything and will probably just make things worse. It sounds like you are doing well other than your living situation and the way your roommate is treating you. Just try to keep your cool. And remember where he/she is probably coming from which is likely their own insecurities and nothing to do with you. Don't take it personally, people who behave that way are usually dealing with their own problems such as low self-esteem and try to make themselves feel better by judging others and acting self-righteous. If you can remember that it's not your fault and feel proud of yourself that you are doing a really great job at staying clean and taking care of your child, then maybe this person's words won't have such an effect on you. Remember, we can't control what other people say or do, but we CAN control how we react to them. You don't need someone like that in your life, but you also don't need to stress out over it or try to force them to see the truth. Just focus on yourself and your baby and try to get out of that place so that you don't have to be around someone who says hurtful things all the time.

 

[blakmike]

Make a decision about what you know is right and act on it. Tomorrow do it again. Now you're on a roll..........