Am so pissed off with Drama!
I am so sick of it, and people who wield it threatening you with emotional bullshit
Have had it!
Have had my own problems, there comes a time when whinging about your issues and then hiding behind other people just has to get old.
When does an Adult start to take responsibility for themselves and stop using people as pawns to hide their addiction.
This is sick!
I came on Bl for some support and am now finding the pecking order is more important.
Apparently just because I dont cry victim, I will be the one who ends up looking bad.
There has been certain discrepencies in my correspondence with someone where I told them that they should stop bullshitting themselves, I also added that I was beaing honest and WAS saying it out of concern for the person at hand.
This person is in thier mid twenties, an ADULT is blaming me for self-harming themselves.
This person has showed me on a few occasions that they are FAR from compassionate when it comes to their 'Friends' IRL, I tried not to judge at the time but when someone can be callous, and go run and pretend they are like a child, there is something drastically corrupt.
I DONT like talking crap about people but I feel I have already been blackened by this person and since they have alot of peoples sympathies, and tend to Spin things in their own favour. Im just putting my point down.
They tell you what a 'good friend you are', how they 'Loved me' and then let on to others like they barely knew me. Affter sharing all of my experiences, some which are similar, for some reason they still seem to treat me like a second rate on BL. Yet blow smoke up my ass when in private.
I have been manipulated like shit for the past five years by someone who had an addiction, I try everyday not to hurt myself and its a fucking struggle...really is, I might not always go singing about it in BL because im afraid il go under the more I bring attention to it... to be honest am just tryin to stay fukin positive...and I have this person throwing ALL there shit on me constantly,
and Im meant to pretend that they are RIGHT?
I will not talk to a grown adult like a five year old, just because they act like one, I feel this person is getting worse because they have control of everyones sympathies here and I am not willing to buy into that game, especially if it means the person is going to keep harming themselves, NO Way! Am not going to baby someone into being stuck. Am sorry this person used my reaction to make excuses about who made them feel bad and decide to tell everyone and play the martyr.
I in NO WAY intended to hurt the person and made that very clear to them, if anything Im the one who had way more to lose...should have kept my mouth shut but am sick of having to censor myself because of emotional blackmail.
I am so sick of it, and people who wield it threatening you with emotional bullshit
Have had it!
Have had my own problems, there comes a time when whinging about your issues and then hiding behind other people just has to get old.
When does an Adult start to take responsibility for themselves and stop using people as pawns to hide their addiction.
This is sick!
I came on Bl for some support and am now finding the pecking order is more important.
Apparently just because I dont cry victim, I will be the one who ends up looking bad.
There has been certain discrepencies in my correspondence with someone where I told them that they should stop bullshitting themselves, I also added that I was beaing honest and WAS saying it out of concern for the person at hand.
This person is in thier mid twenties, an ADULT is blaming me for self-harming themselves.
This person has showed me on a few occasions that they are FAR from compassionate when it comes to their 'Friends' IRL, I tried not to judge at the time but when someone can be callous, and go run and pretend they are like a child, there is something drastically corrupt.
I DONT like talking crap about people but I feel I have already been blackened by this person and since they have alot of peoples sympathies, and tend to Spin things in their own favour. Im just putting my point down.
They tell you what a 'good friend you are', how they 'Loved me' and then let on to others like they barely knew me. Affter sharing all of my experiences, some which are similar, for some reason they still seem to treat me like a second rate on BL. Yet blow smoke up my ass when in private.
I have been manipulated like shit for the past five years by someone who had an addiction, I try everyday not to hurt myself and its a fucking struggle...really is, I might not always go singing about it in BL because im afraid il go under the more I bring attention to it... to be honest am just tryin to stay fukin positive...and I have this person throwing ALL there shit on me constantly,
and Im meant to pretend that they are RIGHT?
I will not talk to a grown adult like a five year old, just because they act like one, I feel this person is getting worse because they have control of everyones sympathies here and I am not willing to buy into that game, especially if it means the person is going to keep harming themselves, NO Way! Am not going to baby someone into being stuck. Am sorry this person used my reaction to make excuses about who made them feel bad and decide to tell everyone and play the martyr.
I in NO WAY intended to hurt the person and made that very clear to them, if anything Im the one who had way more to lose...should have kept my mouth shut but am sick of having to censor myself because of emotional blackmail.
