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that sounds riciduculous. But I knew you'd pull through :)
Pagey said:
Aaaw. Hope you're feeling better by now <3

Last week-end I managed to find myself with PMS, cigarette withdrawals (not intentional, was with my parents 24/7 so couldn't smoke), heroin/bupe withdrawals and overall depression and moodiness because of various events in my life, all at once. Absolute hormonal torture. Glad that's over with 8(
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THERE IS A GOD


Alright so my best friend (D) just told me that she was at a party last night that my ex (M - the one I was with for a super long time who cheated on me/left me for a friend, J) was at too. Apparently he was just dumped by J and he asked D (note: he asked) how I was doing. She said I was doing absolutely fantastic, that I'd met a new guy (not entirely true...well kind of, kind of not, since I've been seeing ex-virgin guy regularly but whatever, that's nto really the point) who was super sweet and hot and that she'd never seen me so happy. She really layered it on apparently haha. And she said he just went 'oh...' and looked really disappointed.
I'm SO happy right now. Fucking karma man, it exists after all. Revenge is sweet. <3
 
So when will the karma hit your g/f for being full of shit, page? Why would you be happy about your g/f lying to a guy who obviously doesn't care in the first place. Watch out for that karma coming back you.
 
bagochina said:
So when will the karma hit your g/f for being full of shit, page? Why would you be happy about your g/f lying to a guy who obviously doesn't care in the first place. Watch out for that karma coming back you.
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Doubting it'll come back to her ... nothing wrong with Pagey's friend focusing on the positive things in her life. That's how most people want to be perceived in general, especially by exes, as positive/good as possible.
 
Lysis said:
Karma and girlfriends are so fucking awesome.
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omen_owen mk2 said:
=D%)

Good stuff Pagey!
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Yes =D

bagochina said:
So when will the karma hit your g/f for being full of shit, page? Why would you be happy about your g/f lying to a guy who obviously doesn't care in the first place. Watch out for that karma coming back you.
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Mmh, maybe because he called me last night asking if we could meet up and 'talk about what happened' last year. Sooo maybe because he does care and now knows that I don't anymore. And also because she wasn't full of shit. But thanks for your opinion, it was enlightening as always. :)

llama112 said:
Doubting it'll come back to her ... nothing wrong with Pagey's friend focusing on the positive things in her life. That's how most people want to be perceived in general, especially by exes, as positive/good as possible.
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She basically said the truth anyway. I am much happier than when I was with M and I have met a new hot and sweet guy. He doesn't need to know the details. Just enough to feel bad =D

Lysis said:
She should buy her girlfriend a beer. :D

Awesome friend you got there, Pagey. :)
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Haha yeah I got her a few last night. I definitely owe her one.
 
So it turns out that one of the staff at the supermarket has been flirting with me. It's taken me months to notice because I've always been a bit dense when it comes to flirtation. Now I have no idea what to do next. She's cute and all but I'm terrible at social interaction.
 
Pagey, I am SO glad that that happened! What a good girlfriend, too. I love it when girls have each others back like that. What a good feeling.

Thanks to everyone for the sympathy the other day when I was having such a bad day. It ended up getting better....first of all, I got a spicy chicken sandwich from chick-fil-a which was the only thing my nausea wanted to have (go figure) and then when my husband got home, he came to check on me, and for whatever reason unzipped his pants, flipped me over and fucked me really hard from behind very suddenly, then let me go back to bed. It was hot, and it made me feel better.
 
Beachcat said:
Pagey, I am SO glad that that happened! What a good girlfriend, too. I love it when girls have each others back like that. What a good feeling.

Thanks to everyone for the sympathy the other day when I was having such a bad day. It ended up getting better....first of all, I got a spicy chicken sandwich from chick-fil-a which was the only thing my nausea wanted to have (go figure) and then when my husband got home, he came to check on me, and for whatever reason unzipped his pants, flipped me over and fucked me really hard from behind very suddenly, then let me go back to bed. It was hot, and it made me feel better.
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Beachie is the new lola. lol

Glad you feel better, girlie. <3
 
UC Davis picnic day today!!!! Been getting my drink on since 10 and now we are headed out for the festivities!

Asian girls GALORE!
 
Beachcat said:
Pagey, I am SO glad that that happened! What a good girlfriend, too. I love it when girls have each others back like that. What a good feeling.

Thanks to everyone for the sympathy the other day when I was having such a bad day. It ended up getting better....first of all, I got a spicy chicken sandwich from chick-fil-a which was the only thing my nausea wanted to have (go figure) and then when my husband got home, he came to check on me, and for whatever reason unzipped his pants, flipped me over and fucked me really hard from behind very suddenly, then let me go back to bed. It was hot, and it made me feel better.
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Right? :D

Hah wow, sounds like your husband knows what works. Glad you're feeling better anyway.

Okay so I've been thinking about M, the ex I was talking about. As I mentioned, he called me up last night asking if we might be able to meet up some time before I go back to London and just talk about what happened (clearly all depressed and lonely now his latest relationship is over too!). I basically just told him I was at a party, couldn't really hear him and I'd call him back...cuz I had no fucking idea what to answer hahah. Still haven't called.
I kinda want to, be it only to rub his face in how much better I'm doing without him. I'm also kinda curious to know how he's doing. I've no intention or wish to get back together with him but it took me about a year to get over this guy and I'm afraid seeing him might reawaken some feelings...thoughts? :\
 
Pagey said:
Right? :D

Hah wow, sounds like your husband knows what works. Glad you're feeling better anyway.

Okay so I've been thinking about M, the ex I was talking about. As I mentioned, he called me up last night asking if we might be able to meet up some time before I go back to London and just talk about what happened (clearly all depressed and lonely now his latest relationship is over too!). I basically just told him I was at a party, couldn't really hear him and I'd call him back...cuz I had no fucking idea what to answer hahah. Still haven't called.
I kinda want to, be it only to rub his face in how much better I'm doing without him. I'm also kinda curious to know how he's doing. I've no intention or wish to get back together with him but it took me about a year to get over this guy and I'm afraid seeing him might reawaken some feelings...thoughts? :\
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I am really struggling with my base self vs. my higher ideals right now....

On one hand, it is never right to try to make someone who has hurt you feel hurt themselves. It is bad for the soul. So that part of me would say, just ignore him and get him out of your life.

On the other hand, if it were me and I was feeling really bad feelings, I would meet with him, act breezy and unconcerned, minimize any attempts to discuss issues, and probably fuck him then walk away and never speak to him again.

Action one is much better for you in the long run....
 
kaywholed said:
sounds like you've moved on, why waste your time. gloating isn't very becoming.
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Yeah I guess. I know it sounds bad but I just really do want him to feel just a tiny portion of how horrible he made me feel in our last months together/during & after the break-up. Not very mature of me but there you go :|
I'm also genuinely curious to know what he's been up to and stuff.

Beachcat said:
I am really struggling with my base self vs. my higher ideals right now....

On one hand, it is never right to try to make someone who has hurt you feel hurt themselves. It is bad for the soul. So that part of me would say, just ignore him and get him out of your life.

On the other hand, if it were me and I was feeling really bad feelings, I would meet with him, act breezy and unconcerned, minimize any attempts to discuss issues, and probably fuck him then walk away and never speak to him again.

Action one is much better for you in the long run....
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I suppose that morally no, it's not great, but it would feel pretty damn nice. Plus even a couple hours of shoving my new life in his face would still let me come out as the bigger person in the whole affair, haha.

I definitely wouldn't fuck him because I'm afraid that would get me thinking about him again. I just want him to see that I'm doing better without him. That's it, really.

But you're both probably right.
 
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