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Why do some guys continue to hit on me AFTER I tell them multiple times that I have a boyfriend? I just don't understand!!!

The idea of taking a guy's girl is kind of a turn on to some guys.

Not me; ending up on the Jerry Springer Show is not my idea of "fun".

And your boyfriend let that happen llama?

Yeah, he should have stood up for you, told him to fuck off, or at least, he should have pretended to be gay and started hitting on him so that the guy would go "gahhhh!" like Hank from King of the Hill, and would have quickly walked away. But to let it happen? Jeez... :\ like when would he stand up for you? What's it going to take for him to defend you? In the past, I was willing and ready to defend my female friend (not a girlfriend) just because I thought this crazy meth'd out psycho was going to attack her. And I would have done it if it came down to it, but the psycho just ended up walking away. And this is just one of my regular friends that I would have done that for.
 
My boyfriend shaves completely, it's nice :) :p
I'm not 100% if this would work, but I always put some lotion on wherever I have shaved so that it doesn't itch. I'm not sure if a small amount of lotion would help? Anytime I shave anywhere (even just my legs), it gets so itchy if I don't moisturize! Just a thought ... lol
Beachcat - I wish I had some advice for you but I don't know anything about that :p Best of luck, I hope everything works out for you!! <3

Went out clubbing last night with my boyfriend and met the creepiest guy. He thought my boyfriend was gay so he kept hitting on me. We were like, no, we are together. We were sitting together in this booth thing (me in the middle) and he kept touching my leg and it got a bit too far up! Gah. Then later on he kept trying to dance with me and telling me how much better he was than my boyfriend. It was just some random guy, never met him before (maybe he's seen me before at the club since I'm a regular but I didn't know him). He was like "are you afraid I'll like your pussy better than your boyfriend." I was like ummm no, not at all. Urrgg. Like, I don't get why some guys continue to go after a girl with a boyfriend. Aren't there many single girls who they have a much better chance with? Why do some guys continue to hit on me AFTER I tell them multiple times that I have a boyfriend? I just don't understand!!!
Besides that and a few other creepy people, a good night!!! lol



Wow, what a dick. Talk about horrible pickup lines. Dude sounds sleezy as fuck.

As far as your boyfriend, clubs are really dark, loud and confusing. I can share horror stories of shit that happened to friends and acquaintances of mine two feet in front of me, and I didn't suspect a thing until after I had been told by my newly victimized friend. And I would like to believe I am a pretty observant dude where shit like that is concerned. So perhaps he simply had no idea what was going on, or perceived it to be a minor annoyance rather than a major violation of your personal space. There are a lot of hardcore sexual predators in nightclubs, they know how to conceal their activities so the boyfriends/bodyguards don't comprehend what is going on.

As for why men go after women with boyfriends/husbands, it's because they are usually the ones looking for a quick, easy, low maintenance fuck. There may or may not be a turn on for one dude or another out there regarding this, but it is mostly just because it is incredibly convenient (for the guy). Some people just don't understand how to distinguish between the relationship having girls who are looking for that vs. those who are not. Some people have no idea how to read signals in general.
 
I have a hard time believing he didn't know what was going on when they were sandwiched in a booth together with llama in the middle but whatever.
 
Oh my boyfriend was right there but he didn't see the creepy guy feeling me up!
And omg I meant "lick" instead of "like" lol
My boyfriend was there for most of it. He was in the washroom when the guy came up to me after. And the creepy guy says to my boyfriend "I'm hitting on your girlfriend" and my boyfriend was just like "why.... ??" lol. He was a very creepy, sleezy guy. Oh yeah, and then when we were in the booth, he was like "what are you guys doing after?" and so my bf was like "uhhh... going to sleep" and the guy is like "want me to come over and hang out" ... like we'd met the guy 5 mins ago lmao, NO!

My boyfriend doesn't get jealous, like AT ALL, so if it's harmless flirting then he doesn't care. He did at the end step in. But my bf is also very small and the last thing we want is a fight in the club where my bf gets beat up. And guys hit on me all the time at this club, which is annoying but I take care of it :p.

LOL at my boyfriend pretending to be gay. The creepy guy originally thought my boyfriend was gay and he was just hitting on me, thinking I was single. I thought that should have stopped when we established that the two of us were together. Ohhh it didn't though!

I don't want you guys thinking my bf is a jerk or anything. He is ALWAYS there for me but he didn't realize that the guy was feeling me up and all that. And he wasn't there for part of the convo, but I of course told him right away :p. Normally, when guys are hitting on me, I just start kissing my bf and they *usually* get the point. There are a lot of really weird, sketchy, creepy people at this club. That was just one of the ones that was really weird. Hahah.
 
so... I had the best sex of my entire life last night. I don't know what to say about it or how to feel about it, and I would like some professional advice from rangrz.

paging rangrz...

I would like to hear more about this sex. Lol

Sippin on a huge hot mug of bourbon, honey, fresh squeezed orange juice and gypsy cold care tea. Holy shit, this should be my beverage of choice at all times. I feel amazing right now. I hardly even care that I sound like a man and have to sing a song by myself in front of at least 200 people tomorrow. :p
 
Seriously the guy would get his head on the floor with my boot in his mouth.

my thoughts exactly.

...kytnism...:|

Ugh ...right after I explained myself x_x :
My boyfriend doesn't fight. He is small and he would lose. He did get us out of there when the creepy guy started touching me awkwardly. When he approached us again, my boyfriend was in the washroom (or getting us water, something). When he came back, the creepy guy talked to my boyfriend and then left.
 
hahahaha! I guess you are right the sucking part is missing lols. That's awesome though what does it look? Is it like a head with a mouth on it? I just hope it's not that expensive though.
 
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