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God damn...just got a text from the ex saying I made his youngest cry because I don't go over there anymore (for obvious reasons). Thanks for being a dick, asshole. Now I feel like a dick. That was fucked up. If he was trying to make me feel guilty, he succeeded. :\
 
Oohh that sucks Lysis. But you shouldn't feel guilty!! I'm sure you made the right decision. You certainly can't make everyone happy. And at least you know a good reason why you shouldn't be with him anyway.
 
That's not very cool of him, Lysis. :(

You should text back saying a bunch of kids in Africa are going to dying a horrifyingly painful death because you are not going to donate that $1000.00 bucks you had planned on to MSF for tetanus vaccines because of his attempt at guilt tripping you. Then put a winking emoticon.
 
^ yeah, I know. It's fucked up to use the kid like that. I really bonded with the youngest, but there isn't anything I can do. I won't lose sleep over it, but damn dude that was nasty. He knows I reallllly feel guilty about the little one. He's a sweet kid.
 
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God damn...just got a text from the ex saying I made his youngest cry because I don't go over there anymore (for obvious reasons). Thanks for being a dick, asshole. Now I feel like a dick. That was fucked up. If he was trying to make me feel guilty, he succeeded. :\
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What an asshole. All the more reason you shouldn't be with him if he pulls that sort of shit, seriously. How pathetic is it to use his kids to make you feel guilty.
 
Lysis
I don't like how said "you MADE" anything happen. Yeah it's a crappy situation but he invited you into his home and his family. That was HIS mistake. One that HE made for his children. You know this.

This is why I won't bring lovers into my daughter's life until it's a Deal.
 
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Lysis
I don't like how said "you MADE" anything happen. Yeah it's a crappy situation but he invited you into his home and his family. That was HIS mistake. One that HE made for his children. You know this.

This is why I won't bring lovers into my daughter's life until it's a Deal.
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Yeah I know and I appreciate the support. I do feel really bad when I think about it, because I did bond with the little one and it really bothers me that he is upset that I'm gone. I'd hang out with that little guy even if the dad and I weren't together but I know that would be weird. I'm gonna miss that cool kid. He's gonna be a cool coder one of these days. Luckily, I bought him a bunch of codey geeky stuff to facilitate his genius. :)
 
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There is this chick who works with me and also goes to my aftercare classes. She has a lot of undeserved arrogance from what I gather. Ever since I first tried to talk to her months ago she's extremely standoffish.

Everytime I try to talk to her she gets really weird and makes the encounter extremely uncomfortable

I told her about the art show today because claims to be going to school for graphic design and also likes drum n bass so since its a drum n bass art show I thought maybe shed be interested
Shut down.

"Hey there is an art show soon, if you have fb ill send you the event info"

"I don't have a fb"

"Oh well the art show is Sunday"

"I have to work"

At that point I got really irritated at her snootiness and general bitchness.

I finally decided to confront her a few minutes later.

I said

"Do you have a problem with me? Everytime I try to talk to you you act really strange and shut me down. I was not trying to ask you out. I was only trying to help you to meet / network with some people in the art scene."

She smiled and was like "aw.. Well I don't have fb and have to work. Those are just facts"

I said "ok well I guess I won't try to talk to you anymore. Maybe that would be better."

She acted like she didnt know what I was talking about but the truth is, a lot has led up to this. I feel like I had good reason to call her out on that, especially seeing her talk and bullshit with other people in the class like they're best friends. Ever since my first encounter with her she's just been extremely standoffish and defensive. I want to establish that I have no interest in dating her. Which I really do not. I hope I did.
I guess it would be best to leave her alone completely but it is hard because I work with her and have a class with her also. We also share alot of the same interest in music and art. Fuck it, I don't get it.

Sometimes the people with all the same interests as me are the ones I clash with.

/rant

Oh and by the way. I'm going to be in it.
 
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^Ugh yeah, some people are like that and just seem to have a problem with you from the start...I wouldn't push it, if she wants to be a bitch to you then her loss. And that's awesome you're gonna be in the art show, hope it goes well!
 
lemme get dat <insert derogatory name for females> number. ill set her straight with my dick!
 
lol I thought your opening comment was directed at me. I chuckled and thought "did he know me in real life???" then saw you were directing that to a post a few pages back lol. I'm sure lysis will be able to assist in your computer issues, I always see her in the tech&science forum.
 
Lol pontif, the girl in serotonin's story went a bit to the extreme, so I get your point but when done right, cockteasing is fun for both parties.
 
Ms.G is really stressed about school/exams and she is being pretty mean/harsh/cold to me cause of it. I don't think it's really fair or cool to do that. While I can understand the stress to a degree, at the same I don't know.

I mean I had a bloody wpn pointed at me at last night. Sure, it rustled my jimmies, but I don't take it out on other people. specifically not on my fiance. I have 3 really hard hard exams (quantum field theory, magnetohydrodynamics, and algebraic geometry) coming up too, and I ain't that worried or stressed about it. I don't need to study for 8 hours a day to handle them. QFT and magnetohydrodynamics are probably the hardest courses anyone can take, in any subject. I mean holy crap, they're really abstruse, exotic and require one to disregard all intuition and "common sense" to understand, but still, I don't freak out over it.

Any ladies have insight into why she might be? My male friends don't do this. But I've noticed it a lot with ex's and female friends. I'm not trying to generalize or be sexist and I do know some girls who don't do it, but I'm a bit curious as to if it's a culturally conditioned thing for females to deal with stressors in this way.
 
^I dunno, my ex (so a guy) used to get super pissed off around exam time, he'd snap at me and generally just be really unpleasant and want nothing to do with me, when I usually just take stress out on my own (more exercising...the occasional wall-punching...lol). I don't think it's a gender thing, it just really depends on the person. Although women do tend to worry about their studies more so maybe that's it?
Must really suck for you but I learned from experience that the best thing to do is really leave them alone, hah.
 
Hmm. Fair enough, and yeah I know guys who do it too. But I just know more girls than guys who do it. Why do you think girls worry about studies more tho? It makes no sense to me.

And FYI: I did not even take anything out on the fellow who pointed a wpn at me! I took it off him, and brought him to the hospital for psychiatric care, without even hurting him or for that matter, even saying anything not nice to him. I talked with him the whole time in a very calm and friendly and understanding manner. I don't think it's cool to harsh me out cause of exam stress considering that...
 
^No idea, it's just something I've noticed and it's definitely been emphasised by a number of studies - girls tend to pay more attention in class until a certain age, although that age is considerably younger than Ms. G's so I dunno...

You're right, you shouldn't be on the receiving end of her stress, but you're probably not gonna manage to convince her of that, so as I said, better to stay clear really :\
 
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