Sister in law

[Mark lifst]

So I got married recently to a beautiful woman that I love. And we have had a hard time with her family being terrible. Her sister lives around us and it has been difficult. But we eventually started to get along and now are friendly.

Recently I have started to notice my sister in law. She is not all that pretty and does not have a good body per say but for some reason I am getting a little turned on by her. Well more than a little bit. I think it is because it's something forbidden. Like since I'm not allowed to have her I want her even more. I'll not go to detail but I think about setting up a situation where we run into each other naked and do stuff. She would not go for it I know but I wish.

I'm not particularly asking for advice but I want to know what you people think and I guess I just need to say it to someone. I do feel guilty, but man the idea of having her gets me excited.

Thanks ...

 

[Airmid]

Umm that's a toughie. When you say she lives around you, do you mean she lives in the same house as you and your beautiful woman that you love so much? or is it she stops by a lot?...It's not unusual for people to fantasise about, like you said 'forbidden fruit'. You don't mention how long you have been married to the beautiful woman whom you are so in love with which would possibly be helpful to know. You mention terrible trouble with your wife's family but do not say whether there was direct conflict between you and your wife's sister. This could be important. Depending on the type of conflict and issues involved, without knowing that it can only be guessed that this attraction has in actual fact been brewing for some time. I on a personal level do not approve of disloyalty whether it be action or thoughts not to the extent your describing. One of my ex BF's told me it is like really common for guys to fuck their partners sisters but of course in my world this is TABOO but that's my world. If you still feel that you are in love with your wife would it not be sensible to widen the distance between your sister in law and yourself? i.e if she's living with you she should move out. How do you think your wife would feel reading your post for example? some people accept an open marriage and don't give a shit who their partner fucks. Likelihood is, I feel is this 'thing' is also coming off of your sister in law and it's feeding itself. Could be that you want what you can't have, could be sister in law wants what her sisters got or could be she challenged you in a way that your wife never has and 'hate' sex chemistry is a turn on for a lot of people. This could be discussed for quite a few therapy sessions so I'm going to end this bluntly as I see it from what you've told us you have two choices bang your wife's sister, which may or may not lead to divorce or take the temptation away as much as is possible. Let's face it if everyone fucked everyone that excited them why couple up?..the bottom line is that weak people stay in unhappy relationships that their heart isn't in. No matter how many excuses they give. Have you asked yourself what ever made you get married in the first place?...you speak of 'love' for your wife perhaps that word just comes easily to your lips because it's what you think you should feel, rather than in reality actually feeling it. I know you said you aren't necessarily looking for advice but once again I feel you are and along with that some justification to make the guilt disappear like magic, which it won't. Good Luck.

 

[Pharcyde]

That'll happen yeah

 

[Steroids]

Let her catch you checking out her ass.. That will let her know that you find her sexually attractive. She also won't say anything due to making it awkward for her sister and herself.

If she finds you sexually attractive as well she may start giving you little hints on and off as well.. If so then let it play out and then you can feel confident that if you made a move then it would be a GO.

(I once banged my now ex gfs sister while she was at work)

 

[Vagina Lover]

You're probably just horny and feel like fucking.

Would it be a good idea to fuck your sister in law?

 

[llama112]

Obviously if you want to stay with your wife then don't. But I think you know that.

But it is perfectly fine to find your sister in law attractive or whatever. That's fine. Probably fairly normal as people generally spend a lot of time with their family.