Single, Mother of "three"...

[ddaannaa]

Is a serious relationship possible - way the odds - I'm torn between searching and accepting being single in order to completely focus on my girlies! Any advice?

 

[ddaannaa]

Are there any single dads out there, I think I need a "brady bunch" type of man!! Any advice on relationships with children would be much appreciated - thanks!

 

[llama112]

Of course there are tons of single dads out there. Have you tried online dating? I normally don't suggest something like that - but it could work for your situation, especially when you're too busy to go out and meet people.

 

[Pander Bear]

"way the odds"?

I think you should go back to school.

 

[GenericMind]

Depends how old you and your kids are.

 

[badandwicked]

"way the odds"?

I think you should go back to school.

Was that really necessary? Couldn't you have just resisted the temptation to be an asshole? Clearly not.

OP I know a girl who has 3 kids and she has no shortage of men wanting to be with her. She just finds it impossible to make the time to go dating and prioritises raising her kids. She figures she has to devote the time to them and their needs for now, and her time will come later.

 

[Pander Bear]

I guess that puts me in the in the catagory of "focus on your girlies", then, doesn't it.

 

[badandwicked]

I guess that puts me in the in the catagory of "focus on your girlies", then, doesn't it.

No, it puts you in the category of people who don't know how to spell category.

If you're going to post in SLR threads simply to mock others, at least learn to spell correctly.

 

[shahab6]

how old are you?

 

[Pander Bear]

No, it puts you in the category of people who don't know how to spell category.

If you're going to post in SLR threads simply to mock others, at least learn to spell correctly.

where is the error, white knight?

 

[llama112]

If you are going to argue about spelling, feel free to do that in PMs, there is no need to do it on this thread when she is asking for advice.

 

[addictivepersona]

where is the error, white knight?

See post 8: "No, it puts you in the category of people who don't know how to spell category."

OP, without knowing your age, let alone the age of your "girlies", it is nearly impossible to "way" the odds.

 

[Noodle]

You should be investing in yourself for you and your girls is what I am picking up here and there OP. What are you looking for in another man?

 

[Lysis]

How many different baby mommas? ONE baby momma is drama enough. I have a rule where I won't date any guy with more than one baby momma. I'm single, free, have no kids and really don't want to deal with that shit (baby momma drama, that is). If your kids are with one girl and it just didn't work out, that's not bad at all and it's typical and not so far out there. There are plenty of women who would be a great stepmom. In my experience, though, you've got a tougher job, because you have to know when to bring the girl around the kids and how to make all of them feel important. You would probably be better off dating a girl with kids (OK, that might get brady bunch lol but who cares if you are happy?). A girl with kids will completely understand your priorities whereas someone like me would be too put off with you putting your kids as a priority.

You'll be fine. I truly believe that if you are a good person and you can love someone and be good to them, you will find someone awesome.

 

[steveitis]

try online we got married never wound have met if not for the net.