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Kaori

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Basically, I have ASD. You'll know that people with autism can find social situations rather daunting.

Anyway, I dated a girl who is the cousin of my older sister's partner. But she was 17 at the time. Her mother intervened in 2021 and caused us to break up. The next thing I know, this lassie now goes dating a guy way older than I am. So like, what the hell?

I often send messages to BDSM related tarts on adultwork.com, a site called Professional Mistresses, plus Fetlife and other platforms they use. A lot of them tend to be very nasty right off the bat, then block me. And while I get that small talk without providing a tribute isn't really their gig, I observed their X posts to be totally cold and sadistic in nature. Most of the ladies I am referring to don't even smile in their photos.

I watch fetish porn, like tickling and bodily fluids, so I have an interest in trying out that type of kink. But their attitude is downright volatile. I get that they are hard nuts, but why talk to men like they are trash, or throw a silly hissy fit over basically... nothing? It doesn't seem in the least bit civil.

Even if an apology is offered for to save face, they still basically act horrid, or fully ignore the DM. They know many other dommes too, so this terrible attitude can lead to one getting blackballed, especially if they alert women about you via National Ugly Mugs. Then if you email the site to say a report was submitted online because it's just some disgruntled bitch being spiteful, they say if you want the report deleted, you have to go to a lawyer.

But to be honest, it is a colossal waste of time to bother contacting women any more to seek intimacy or kink, as I only seldomly gain a nice reply.

Have you yourself used AW or OnlyFans, etc, and noticed how insolent they are? Because it's all pretty sad to behave like they're high and mighty.

I reckon they suffer from bipolar, ADHD, or just outright fancy themselves.
 
I'm 40, but I have only been in a brief relationship like three times.

That's it.
 
you’re 40, the mother of the 17 year old intervened in 2019. that was 7 years ago.

you were 33 dating a 17 year old? i hope ive got that wrong cause otherwise, what the fuck no shit she intervened wtf dude
 
She now dates somebody way older than me who is also in his 40s, though.

The age of consent is 16 in the UK.
 
I'm lucky I've been married for 20 years but if it were ever to end and I pray it doesn't
I don't think I would ever feel the need to have a relationship ever again and I'm only 44
 
She now dates somebody way older than me who is also in his 40s, though.

The age of consent is 16 in the UK.
Yeah but she'll be 24 now which is in maturity terms a world away from 17

If a 33 year old had been sniffing around my daughter when she was 17 I too would have 'intervened' trust me, and he wouldn't have enjoyed it at all. Now she's mid 20's it would be totally different

Perhaps you don't come over as very pleasant when you contact these women? Just a hunch, given you've already referred to them as 'tarts' in your op on this thread
 
They call guys simps. Among other things. Just using their looks to scam naive, stupid men. It's predatory behaviour in itself.

It takes two to tango.
 
you’re 40, the mother of the 17 year old intervened in 2019. that was 7 years ago.

you were 33 dating a 17 year old? i hope ive got that wrong cause otherwise, what the fuck no shit she intervened wtf dude

No. It was in 2021.

She immediately started dating that other guy after breaking up with me. I think. I don't know exactly when she started her relationship.

They met because of a site for those with a stuttering problem. Even my family found it hypocritical that I was ditched, then she began dating an older man. My sister (the crazy one) even said we seemed like a good match.
 
Basically, I have ASD. You'll know that people with autism can find social situations rather daunting.

Anyway, I dated a girl who is the cousin of my older sister's partner. But she was 17 at the time. Her mother intervened in 2021 and caused us to break up. The next thing I know, this lassie now goes dating a guy way older than I am. So like, what the hell?

I often send messages to BDSM related tarts on adultwork.com, a site called Professional Mistresses, plus Fetlife and other platforms they use. A lot of them tend to be very nasty right off the bat, then block me. And while I get that small talk without providing a tribute isn't really their gig, I observed their X posts to be totally cold and sadistic in nature. Most of the ladies I am referring to don't even smile in their photos.

I watch fetish porn, like tickling and bodily fluids, so I have an interest in trying out that type of kink. But their attitude is downright volatile. I get that they are hard nuts, but why talk to men like they are trash, or throw a silly hissy fit over basically... nothing? It doesn't seem in the least bit civil.

Even if an apology is offered for to save face, they still basically act horrid, or fully ignore the DM. They know many other dommes too, so this terrible attitude can lead to one getting blackballed, especially if they alert women about you via National Ugly Mugs. Then if you email the site to say a report was submitted online because it's just some disgruntled bitch being spiteful, they say if you want the report deleted, you have to go to a lawyer.

But to be honest, it is a colossal waste of time to bother contacting women any more to seek intimacy or kink, as I only seldomly gain a nice reply.

Have you yourself used AW or OnlyFans, etc, and noticed how insolent they are? Because it's all pretty sad to behave like they're high and mighty.

I reckon they suffer from bipolar, ADHD, or just outright fancy themselves.
They call guys simps. Among other things. Just using their looks to scam naive, stupid men. It's predatory behaviour in itself.

It takes two to tango.
I think that's the whole point of these sites isn't it ?
 
Well, I don't blame the sites. Some women on OnlyFans and all that can arrange meets in real life, but are respectful enough not to take the piss. However, they have to be careful.

They just aren't allowed to outright discuss bookings though, because there are rules. And the moderators on these sites can read your exchanges with the women. So they'll kick you off if you keep doing it.

In terms of their attitude, maybe it's just how they are. Maybe they hate the job. Maybe they're addicts. I don't know. I am not their minder, or anything. So I cannot say why they are coming across as horrid.
 
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