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Single again after basically a lifetime.

gayorstraight

gayorstraight

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Feels pretty weird and liberating and upsetting all in one go.

Now, what to do now..?

Suppose I better get on with sorting the three bags of stuff out that came home with me...
 
Sorry to hear about it gos, although I know you were saying it was on the cards.

I've pretty recently split up with my girlfriend! and found my mates, and doing the stuff I couldn't do in a relationship has helped, I'm going travelling next week. Plus as has been said, getting your end over!
 
All the normal stuff you were doing before you broke up with your boyfriend. Weren't doing it? That's probably one of the primary reasons the relationship didn't work out for you in the end, gotta be happy in your relationship with yourself to make a relationship with another work.

Buy yeah tldr get laid.
 
When i split up withh my wife years ago (now remarried) i was in bits then the new found feeling of freedom was amazing, it ws like leaving home-eat what i want go out when i want see who i want basically i had a 2 year party, had 3 g/f's on the go at one point was seeing my mates going out raving and all sorts of high jinx
Of course there is a feeling of loss and sadness but believe me that will go as soon as you start to go out and do the things you couldnt do when attached.
 
Call me, baby.

Catch up with old friends that you probably didnt see as much as you wanted because you were in a relationship.

Pick somewhere youve always wanted to go and just book a ticket and go, enjoy your self.
 
I would like to go on holiday alone. I reckon you would probably have as much company as you like/need mixing with people in hostels, bars or whatever. Maybe some holidays would be better suited to that than others. Would probably push yourself out more to meet people which I think is a good thing.

I've recently came out of a relationship. After the pain and sadness, I'm definitely enjoying having my own space, it is liberating. I've never been happier now.
 
Three bags of stuff you came home with lol that is probly the most depressing thing about the original post. Because you need to look on the positive side of things, you can do what you want now without worrying about anyone else while your single, no one holding you back, no would you like to do this, what do you think about this, none of that!

Be positive and spontaneous while single and it will not be a bad thing.
 
MrCookiE said:
Three bags of stuff you came home with lol that is probly the most depressing thing about the original post. Because you need to look on the positive side of things, you can do what you want now without worrying about anyone else while your single, no one holding you back, no would you like to do this, what do you think about this, none of that!

Be positive and spontaneous while single and it will not be a bad thing.
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How is three bags of stuff depressing? I didn't live there.

I'm definitely going to look into a holiday
 
gayorstraight said:
How is three bags of stuff depressing? I didn't live there.

I'm definitely going to look into a holiday
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If you did not live there then 3 bags is quite some haul. The way the amount of bags is linked to depression is as follows:

2 bags is slightly more depressing than having 3 but nowhere near as depressing as just the 1. Cure your depression now by filling bags with lots of unwanted things, that's why bin men are always laughing and joking even though they do a fairly grimey tough job. More bags = less depression (no lasses that does not apply to handbags).

On a more serious note enjoy your freedom while it lasts mate, you only really appreciate it when you are tied down in a relationship but try make the best of it. I love my own company and the sex is great.
 
If you do decide to go out the country on holiday, don't worry about the flying, it's the crashing you wanna be scared of.



And remember, always sit at the back of the plane, because when have you heard of a plane reversing into a mounting.
 
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Sorry to hear that GOS, strange time as you'll have so much spare time. Travelling could really help, try and plan a few things to do when you arrive so your busy. Plan a day at the beach, a day at the pool (sounds stupid but can help when your alone), take a book with you so you have something to do. Headphones can make you feel a bit more isolated as it removes you from whats going on - poolside, the bars are a great place to get chatting to people.
 
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