I know this is a bit weird but I have really high standards for relationships ( friends and girlfriends ) . I am 29 and straight, good job happy life etc, regular weed smoker , some mushrooms once a year and rarely some LSD. I have been in around 4-5 serious relationships with girls. Unfortunately, I am not really easy with my relationships and I have high standards. If something happens in the relationship that I don't like I will stop it immediately. This has worked pretty good for me and Ive met many people I like and Ive probably avoided a lot of drama. I mean I am really picky about things and I won't let things that trouble me go easily. Also I take things really personally and give attention to details, mostly because I want to improve myself and be happy. I am also pretty straight about things, really open, if I like something I will tell you , if I don't I will tell you again.
Generally speaking I am quite picky in my relationships but I am happy to spend time with anyone to work things out , its just when I feel we talk and we cant work it out , it's then that I end my relationships.
Now I want to talk about sex. Well, I have really high expectations on sex as well and if it's not like that I get angry and/or stop being interested in that girl anymore. I have also talked to girls and stopped them while they were doing oral to me and tell them that they aint good/I dont like ( I didnt ) and proceeded to show them how I would like it to be done. Some girls get offended but what am I supposed to do ? I never just say "you are bad" and leave it there . I tell them that I have high expectations and I show them what I like and discuss it in the nicest way but I have caught myself to be angry and not talk as nice which I feel bad about. Most girls are pretty scared and they dont really talk about sex until I start talking about things.... which sometimes I mind cause I think communication is key.
Now it's that I really like these girls and generally we get along fine it's just that they don't really please me sexually.... I am quite experienced and I care about them so I make sure they are always pleased and spend time to know what they like and how they like it but I find they don't or are scared..... And then since my sex needs are not met I ask them to be friends only, which works ok most of the times, I have many girl friends, I like them.
I really like young girls ( 20 - 30 ) and unfortunately most of them are not very experienced or up to the level.
I love HARDCORE sex ALL NIGHT LONG every day.
Do you think I should try and work it inside me and lower my expectations ? Am I a unrealistic ? Sometimes I feel bad about telling them that I don't get what I like because they feel bad. Keep my high expectations and wait till I find what I am looking ?
When I say high expectations I mean perfect oral, hand jobs , go on top of me and fuck me perfectly, be active, care about me even when her sex drive is not that high.... I like girls that are active on bed, hate the very passive girls. I think 70me active 30her active is what I like . Most girls Ive been with are 95me-5her. I had girls that were really pro at bed but we were just not compatible or didnt find them that sexually attractive ( friends first then sex, I dont like sex with girls I dont know, one night stands etc, shallow only-sex relationships, had my fair share ) .
Btw I am not really the monogamous type kind of guy but I am happy to be only with one girl if she can fulfill a lot of my needs. The reason I go with many girls is that I think no single girl can fully fulfill my needs so why stay with one. It's the same with friends. Sometimes, though, we have a best friend and we like to spend only time with him if he can fulfill our needs I am always open about my intentions though and what I do , never cheated.
Thanks
Generally speaking I am quite picky in my relationships but I am happy to spend time with anyone to work things out , its just when I feel we talk and we cant work it out , it's then that I end my relationships.
Now I want to talk about sex. Well, I have really high expectations on sex as well and if it's not like that I get angry and/or stop being interested in that girl anymore. I have also talked to girls and stopped them while they were doing oral to me and tell them that they aint good/I dont like ( I didnt ) and proceeded to show them how I would like it to be done. Some girls get offended but what am I supposed to do ? I never just say "you are bad" and leave it there . I tell them that I have high expectations and I show them what I like and discuss it in the nicest way but I have caught myself to be angry and not talk as nice which I feel bad about. Most girls are pretty scared and they dont really talk about sex until I start talking about things.... which sometimes I mind cause I think communication is key.
Now it's that I really like these girls and generally we get along fine it's just that they don't really please me sexually.... I am quite experienced and I care about them so I make sure they are always pleased and spend time to know what they like and how they like it but I find they don't or are scared..... And then since my sex needs are not met I ask them to be friends only, which works ok most of the times, I have many girl friends, I like them.
I really like young girls ( 20 - 30 ) and unfortunately most of them are not very experienced or up to the level.
I love HARDCORE sex ALL NIGHT LONG every day.
Do you think I should try and work it inside me and lower my expectations ? Am I a unrealistic ? Sometimes I feel bad about telling them that I don't get what I like because they feel bad. Keep my high expectations and wait till I find what I am looking ?
When I say high expectations I mean perfect oral, hand jobs , go on top of me and fuck me perfectly, be active, care about me even when her sex drive is not that high.... I like girls that are active on bed, hate the very passive girls. I think 70me active 30her active is what I like . Most girls Ive been with are 95me-5her. I had girls that were really pro at bed but we were just not compatible or didnt find them that sexually attractive ( friends first then sex, I dont like sex with girls I dont know, one night stands etc, shallow only-sex relationships, had my fair share ) .
Btw I am not really the monogamous type kind of guy but I am happy to be only with one girl if she can fulfill a lot of my needs. The reason I go with many girls is that I think no single girl can fully fulfill my needs so why stay with one. It's the same with friends. Sometimes, though, we have a best friend and we like to spend only time with him if he can fulfill our needs I am always open about my intentions though and what I do , never cheated.
Thanks