Should a man wallow in his own filth

let me preface this by saying I have been cheated on, which hurts, and my dad cheated on my mom with the woman he is married to. With that being said, I know full well the pain and anguish cheating can cause. I made it a rule to never cheat or promote cheating....but enter my friends girl. She is beatiful, artistic, charming, and funny. She is someone that I would actually date, not just lust after. I have never felt such a strong compulsion to break my number one rule. My friend is kind of a loser, never takes her out, never compliments her, never is affectionate to her...etc etc ad nauseum. Now since we are chilling he never wants to come and spend time with us so it ends up just being her and i . Now she is texting me telling me I'm cute, and she likes me, and wants to spend more time with me!!! What do I do? I seriously don't want to be that guy, even though I know we could be good together. Just one more folley in the life of this man this chef......
Zack: aka manboychef

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It gets better....she just told me she wants to leave her boyfriend for me....man boy...what are u getting yourself into?

 

I decided to do the right thing....damn my one arm is getting longer than the other patting myself on the back.

 

Good shit man boy chef. As crude a saying as it is, "bros before hoes." You did the right thing this time.

If you and your friend ever call it splits down the road, keep her number tucked into that contacts list...

P.S. Im almost a week clean off the booze... Were both doing the right thing, no matter how painful it is. We deserve a little back patting.

 

wait until she breaks up with him and then ask your friend if he would be cool with you with his ex

 

It turns out she is a scumbag...and I'm at a stage in my life I want to settle down and be with one girl...you know white picket fence style...I've been talking to this amazing girl from back home...I'd be a salty bastard if I did something to her especially when my plan is to move back up to Syracuse to be closer to my son.