~kira~
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Mar 27, 2017
- Messages
- 162
I think you obviously want to leave and you just feel bad about it. It was a big mistake moving in together, but you can't undo that now. If you're already resentful after 10 months this just isn't going to last.
There are a ton of other replies here I read. Thank you everyone for putting on your opinions. I want to leave and focus on me, but I also do love and care about her. I know she is into me and isn't using me. We were friends before we dated. Shes a great mother, and she has a decent job and makes money. She was in a very abusive relationship that just about killed her. She was hospitalized for months. I just hate to see her get hurt again. Obviously it wouldnt be like that. I've been contemplating on telling her. I have no idea when or how to bring it up
Was thinking the next time she would want to have sex, say to her I need to talk to you and tell her I am not ready for kids, and that I love her a lot..but a part of me wants to be single. Not sure how this would go. And then go from there.
I have lived with my best friend and her bf for about a year. I after about 6 months, hated living with them. I think i am happier on my own at this point in my life. It feels like the exact same thing, just I'm in a relationship with this girl.