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Sexual Fantasies Bucket list

xtcgrrrl said:
Oh I definitely know all about this. I worked as a stripper in college and thought it was unbelievable the amount of money men would waste on a look-no-touch scenario…I mean, I definitely wouldn’t pay $$$ to see a guy’s junk, in fact I’d pay to NOT have to see it lol (unsolicited dick pics are uncool, guys)
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Right lmao seeing a penis does absolutely nothing for me at all lol. I notice a man’s lips and hands more then anything besides their charisma

I can imagine being a stripper could be like an ultimate alter ego. So fun. Women are sexy creatures…like felines lol. Were you close to a college campus? I worked at Hooters next to the ETSU campus in my early twenties. But seems like Hooters isn’t the same as it use to be. Unless it’s one close to a college campus they’ve kinda gone down hill.

Idk why exactly but I always loved taking my man to a strip club. Something so intriguing about watching his face as he’s watching another female. I feel like I could learn a lot about myself if I’d dive into what’s behind that for me. But I think I’m scared to
 
Kellsee said:
Right lmao seeing a penis does absolutely nothing for me at all lol. I notice a man’s lips and hands more then anything besides their charisma

I can imagine being a stripper could be like an ultimate alter ego. So fun. Women are sexy creatures…like felines lol. Were you close to a college campus? I worked at Hooters next to the ETSU campus in my early twenties. But seems like Hooters isn’t the same as it use to be. Unless it’s one close to a college campus they’ve kinda gone down hill.

Idk why exactly but I always loved taking my man to a strip club. Something so intriguing about watching his face as he’s watching another female. I feel like I could learn a lot about myself if I’d dive into what’s behind that for me. But I think I’m scared to
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Yes, I worked at 3 different places that were adjacent to RIT and the University of Rochester (I was attending RIT at the time)

They were, in order, Playmates, Gentlemen’s Park Place and the Half Dollar. The first 2 places were all nude and the last one had a liquor bar so it had to be topless only (with pasties, I loathe those things, they hurt when you pull them off!) NY state law requires all-nude places to have only a juice bar, which I thought was ridiculous as most people just drank before entering the establishment. I made decent money too. It can be kinda boring during the day when there’s only a few hopeless losers in there (the second place was fancier and had a buffet lunch and one of the poles was a bubble pole with colored lights that changed. And an actual DJ for your sets, as opposed to the jukebox thing that the other two had.)
 
THECATINTHEHAT said:
You got some good talk on you:cool:

Ive never had a threesome so I guess that's still a fantasy, I'd like to fuck a girl whilst another girl is encouraging me to really ruin her or forcing her to eat her pussy.

Other than that I guess most of my fantasies have been fulfilled at some point....I like age play (ddlg etc), piss play, cnc, impact play, subservient but bratty girls, having sex in front of other people. I wouldn't call myself a sadist (some might but I don't think so) but I definitely lean towards girls that like to be used and abused.
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The most erotic experience of my life was a threesome. But it all depends of what your relationship represents and requires a certain kind of confidence to remain on a healthy level. I would never want to have one with a guy that I was completely into and had strong feelings for. At the time I was dating a guy I actually couldn’t stand lol but our sexual chemistry was off the roof. It was crazy lol. I don’t think he was really into the other girl. He just wanted to see her with me.

I don’t really know how I’m gonna be with someone until I see how they make me wanna be. I try not to define it too much. It’s just Kellsee sex haha
 
xtcgrrrl said:
Yes, I worked at 3 different places that were adjacent to RIT and the University of Rochester (I was attending RIT at the time)

They were, in order, Playmates, Gentlemen’s Park Place and the Half Dollar. The first 2 places were all nude and the last one had a liquor bar so it had to be topless only (with pasties, I loathe those things, they hurt when you pull them off!) NY state law requires all-nude places to have only a juice bar, which I thought was ridiculous as most people just drank before entering the establishment. I made decent money too. It can be kinda boring during the day when there’s only a few hopeless losers in there (the second place was fancier and had a buffet lunch and one of the poles was a bubble pole with colored lights that changed. And an actual DJ for your sets, as opposed to the jukebox thing that the other two had.)
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Pasties are like glued on right? I’d be afraid of that desensitizing my nipples. Or I guess it could feel good. I got mine pierced for the stimulation. But just like with anything else you get use to it after awhile. See Im such a country girl that’s lived her whole life in a one horse town. Your life sounds so fascinating to me. I still ride my horses at least once a week up the ridge and down on the other side of the farm. I’d love to experience the city life.

My oldest daughter and I are going to NY in September. It’s always been on our bucket list. I wanna just sit on one of those park benches with my baby girl and soak in her company while over looking the Manhattan skyline at night. Then I want her and I to go inside one of those coffee shops and just experience that atmosphere. I also wanna see Times Square at night.

She says she’s eventually taking me to Lavender Fields in Provence. That seems like a stretch and I don’t want her to put herself out. But I’m crazy about lavender. They say that’s like lavender heaven lol


Traveling is worth the investment and more attainable then people think. It more about the experience then where we stay to us. Those bus tours aren’t that bad either. You gotta intentionally invest into making memories or won’t have any. I use to wake my kids up at 2am just to go outside and dance in the rain. The spontaneity can be priceless just in itself
 
Kellsee said:
Pasties are like glued on right? I’d be afraid of that desensitizing my nipples. Or I guess it could feel good. I got mine pierced for the stimulation. But just like with anything else you get use to it after awhile. See Im such a country girl that’s lived her whole life in a one horse town. Your life sounds so fascinating to me. I still ride my horses at least once a week up the ridge and down on the other side of the farm. I’d love to experience the city life.

My oldest daughter and I are going to NY in September. It’s always been on our bucket list. I wanna just sit on one of those park benches with my baby girl and soak in her company while over looking the Manhattan skyline at night. Then I want her and I to go inside one of those coffee shops and just experience that atmosphere. I also wanna see Times Square at night.

She says she’s eventually taking me to Lavender Fields in Provence. That seems like a stretch and I don’t want her to put herself out. But I’m crazy about lavender. They say that’s like lavender heaven lol


Traveling is worth the investment and more attainable then people think. It more about the experience then where we stay to us. Those bus tours aren’t that bad either. You gotta intentionally invest into making memories or won’t have any. I use to wake my kids up at 2am just to go outside and dance in the rain. The spontaneity can be priceless just in itself
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I hope you enjoy your visit to NYC!!! It’s a great place to visit, not so much to live. I lived in Brooklyn for just over a decade and while it was a great experience I wouldn’t do it again. See, the kinds of things YOU described doing sound ideal to me!!! I would LOVE to live where there’s fewer people; I’ve lived all my life in the Northeast, in some of the most crowded places imaginable. And I would dearly love to get away from it and go somewhere I could ride a horse every day. I took horseback riding classes in college, too; like most girls, I was horse-crazy for a while. They’re such beautiful animals.

Wanna trade?? :)
 
xtcgrrrl said:
I find it interesting how touch/sensation is more of an interest than just looks, in your scenario. As a blind person, I guess that would make sense. I myself am deaf and I have some fantasies that involve being blindfolded; this is exciting to me because then I would effectively lose TWO senses. It would be even more fun if I was tied up and helpless at the same time, and this would render me completely at my partner’s mercy, unable even to reciprocate touches. If I were blindfolded, with my hearing aids out, I would never know where the next touch is coming from, and I guess that’s the appeal.

Thank you for sharing your interesting and elaborate fantasies with us!
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Yes, I can imagine how sensory deprivation can be extremely erotic. before I ever understood what kinks/fetishes were, I remember thinking that my desires were directly as a result of my blindness. however, i’ve come to the conclusion that my introverted/submissive personality and perhaps childhood conditioning may have played a role. interestingly, whilst the bare feet and spit of young women, I’m attracted to are constantly on my mind, i’m not aroused in the slightest by women’s breasts, buttocks, private parts, or even the thought of sexual intercourse. I remember reading about another heterosexual male Who, like me had a strong foot fetish but no interest in girls boobs and buttocks. he said his classmates thought he was gay since he didn’t show much interest in these things, but strangely, he said he just let them think that rather than explain he likes girls feet.
I do sometimes wonder how exactly and to what extent my blindness affects my choice of women and sexual preferences/desires. I guess I’ll never truly know. however, my best guess is that my blindness simply means I base my attractiveness of a girl more strongly on her voice and personality. even then, in terms of the actual girls I like, I think my personality is much more important than my blindness. as I mentioned, in my previous posts, I’m a bit of an emotional mess, strongly introverted with low self-esteem but with strong thrillseeking tendencies. most of those around me, including my family didn’t know about any of this until they discovered that my personality type was ISFP.
 
Mine isn't legal in 48 states currently. It was pre 2008 a lot of places. Then Mr. Hands died. Anywayyyy put a pin in that for now.

I've kinda done everything on my bucket list:
I've had three ways, group sex, trains, tag teams.
I've lived as a live in slave
I've been chocked, shocked, spanked, tied, pissed on, pissed in, and I love it.

I'm fine with normal cuddles too. Right at this moment in life I'm in a relationship with a man 23 years older then me. It's fucking lit. We just do whatever we want. We went on 18 vacations last year. Going on another this weekend. ✌️
 
Dreamflyer said:
To see nipples??? I wouldn't even pay $200 to have full-on sex! :ROFLMAO:
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I wouldn’t either lol

It’s crazy. The internet is crazy. You should see some of the messages I get. And it usually from guys that’s I can tell have been following us in the forums
 
telepathetic said:
I really want to go to a 20 person orgy :(
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Like those wild bisexual Central-Eastern European bisexual orgies in Czech and Hungarian porn?

Those are hot to watch, but I saw this guy who is in all types of Czech porn but he usually just has sex with women, and in one porn video you could see herpes or some type of sore on his cock. I wouldn't know but I guess he had an outbreak or had recently been infected, and the woman who he was being filmed with either already had it, did not care, or they both figured well if we do not film the porn scene we will not get the € we need and since we are in porn and escorting too, eventually we will get herpes, HPV, or whatever it is he had.
 
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xtcgrrrl said:
Oh I definitely know all about this. I worked as a stripper in college and thought it was unbelievable the amount of money men would waste on a look-no-touch scenario…I mean, I definitely wouldn’t pay $$$ to see a guy’s junk, in fact I’d pay to NOT have to see it lol (unsolicited dick pics are uncool, guys)
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I think a lot of men into strip clubs are addicted to spending $ to see women and men who are strippers naked either partially nude, fully nude, nude and masturbating, for a lap dance with mutual touching, and sex in back areas if it can be done, and when they drink booze, smoke weed, use cocaine or are with friends they keep spending money on drinks or paying for lap dances, etc.

I have only been to strip clubs maybe only 3-4 times I would give small amounts of $ to the strippers at the bar to be polite and to the bartender, but I never paid for a lap dance from women, or "massage" when I would go to a local gay/LGB bar that had male strippers/escorts, but friends have and the stripper would keep track of the time but the person paying for the lap dance, "private" strip show, or "massage" did not and then they would be charged two or three times for going over the time.
 
crazyhairman said:
Mine isn't legal in 48 states currently. It was pre 2008 a lot of places. Then Mr. Hands died. Anywayyyy put a pin in that for now.

I've kinda done everything on my bucket list:
I've had three ways, group sex, trains, tag teams.
I've lived as a live in slave
I've been chocked, shocked, spanked, tied, pissed on, pissed in, and I love it.

I'm fine with normal cuddles too. Right at this moment in life I'm in a relationship with a man 23 years older then me. It's fucking lit. We just do whatever we want. We went on 18 vacations last year. Going on another this weekend. ✌️
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Fausty, is that you?
 
Neuroprotection said:
Yes, I can imagine how sensory deprivation can be extremely erotic. before I ever understood what kinks/fetishes were, I remember thinking that my desires were directly as a result of my blindness. however, i’ve come to the conclusion that my introverted/submissive personality and perhaps childhood conditioning may have played a role. interestingly, whilst the bare feet and spit of young women, I’m attracted to are constantly on my mind, i’m not aroused in the slightest by women’s breasts, buttocks, private parts, or even the thought of sexual intercourse. I remember reading about another heterosexual male Who, like me had a strong foot fetish but no interest in girls boobs and buttocks. he said his classmates thought he was gay since he didn’t show much interest in these things, but strangely, he said he just let them think that rather than explain he likes girls feet.
I do sometimes wonder how exactly and to what extent my blindness affects my choice of women and sexual preferences/desires. I guess I’ll never truly know. however, my best guess is that my blindness simply means I base my attractiveness of a girl more strongly on her voice and personality. even then, in terms of the actual girls I like, I think my personality is much more important than my blindness. as I mentioned, in my previous posts, I’m a bit of an emotional mess, strongly introverted with low self-esteem but with strong thrillseeking tendencies. most of those around me, including my family didn’t know about any of this until they discovered that my personality type was ISFP.
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I have a good friend who is bisexual and blind, he told me how for him touch is akin to "seeing". He is not into feet but he told me how he was at some local art show and some artist who made statues of nude women had him touch them.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I have a good friend who is bisexual and blind, he told me how for him touch is akin to "seeing". He is not into feet but he told me how he was at some local art show and some artist who made statues of nude women had him touch them.
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Interesting. people have had me Touch statues of naked women but it didn’t arouse me at all. of course, on those statues The boobs and buttocks were the most elaborate parts and those don’t arouse me anyway. however, even if I was to touch the foot of a female statue, that wouldn’t arouse me either as it wouldn’t feel real. I can only be aroused by the actual bare feet of a girl I’m attracted to. I read that a lot of foot fetishists are into things like shoes/boots or socks/stockings rather than bare feet. not sure if this is A little unusual, but as I explained earlier, I want my desires of being trampled on and spat in the face to be done bye a typical girl for example, those living in my local area and my female friends at college/university. whilst I don’t really listen to/watch pornography, I tried a few times to see if I could find anything related to my fantasies. There was some of that content, however, the so-called sexy speech/tone of voice they use, just turns me off. it doesn’t sound natural whatsoever. that’s one reason I would never visit a dominatrix, many of them I’ve listened to online sound too aggressive/masculine and the whole role-play sounds fake.
I think my desires are rather different and specific. I mean, someone could literally put the most beautiful women on the planet in front of me and I wouldn’t be that bothered. However, I can be extremely aroused by just the thought of the 20-year-old Arab girl living a few streets away, stepping on me with her bare feet, and spitting aggressively in my face. if that became a reality, it would literally be heaven on Earth for me, probably giving me as much pleasure as an Orgy would give to other people.
I just hope I get an extroverted wife who accepts my desires and is willing to fulfil them. of course, I will be happy to make sure I fulfil hers too.
 
Neuroprotection said:
Interesting. people have had me Touch statues of naked women but it didn’t arouse me at all. of course, on those statues The boobs and buttocks were the most elaborate parts and those don’t arouse me anyway. however, even if I was to touch the foot of a female statue, that wouldn’t arouse me either as it wouldn’t feel real. I can only be aroused by the actual bare feet of a girl I’m attracted to. I read that a lot of foot fetishists are into things like shoes/boots or socks/stockings rather than bare feet. not sure if this is A little unusual, but as I explained earlier, I want my desires of being trampled on and spat in the face to be done bye a typical girl for example, those living in my local area and my female friends at college/university. whilst I don’t really listen to/watch pornography, I tried a few times to see if I could find anything related to my fantasies. There was some of that content, however, the so-called sexy speech/tone of voice they use, just turns me off. it doesn’t sound natural whatsoever. that’s one reason I would never visit a dominatrix, many of them I’ve listened to online sound too aggressive/masculine and the whole role-play sounds fake.
I think my desires are rather different and specific. I mean, someone could literally put the most beautiful women on the planet in front of me and I wouldn’t be that bothered. However, I can be extremely aroused by just the thought of the 20-year-old Arab girl living a few streets away, stepping on me with her bare feet, and spitting aggressively in my face. if that became a reality, it would literally be heaven on Earth for me, probably giving me as much pleasure as an Orgy would give to other people.
I just hope I get an extroverted wife who accepts my desires and is willing to fulfil them. of course, I will be happy to make sure I fulfil hers too.
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Can you meet a very Dominant Muslim woman? Are you in an Islamic country, or in the West?
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Can you meet a very Dominant Muslim woman? Are you in an Islamic country, or in the West?
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I live in the west, in the UK. there are plenty of Muslim women where I live and quite a few of them who are family friends are those dominant, extroverted, slightly immature, independent and energetic/bubbly personality type that I like. The thing is, in my
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Can you meet a very Dominant Muslim woman? Are you in an Islamic country, or in the West?
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I live in the west, in the UK. fortunately, there are plenty of Muslim women here including in my local area. many of them are friends with my other family members. also, a lot of them are those Young, extroverted, slightly immature, dominant, independent Women with that spontaneous and energetic/bubbly personality that I find really attractive.
The thing is, in my culture, talking about sexual fantasies before marriage is taboo. however, talking about the type of partner you want before marriage is highly encouraged which is a huge positive. i’ve never talked to anyone about which girls I like before apart from dropping regular hints about how I got on with a certain group of extroverted girls at college. i’ve now realised that time is moving fast and I need to discuss with my family about which type of wife I want. by that I mean, sharing with them the type of personality that I like, don’t think I’ll be sharing my fantasies with them any time soon as I think they would be horrified.
Interestingly, in my culture, and to some extent, even in western culture, I found men to be generally more attracted to shy/quiet girls. I remember my brother giving me advice about how I should reject a potential bride if I found her to be too outgoing/loud and immature. When I told him that that is what I like in women, he was incredibly shocked.
 
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