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zirconium

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i am 22 years old man and just for making it sure i have nothing wrong with my penis and it have normal size and normal erections. i love women but i don't want to have sex in the "regular" way by inserting my penis into them, i want to do it like lesbians with women, mainly licking/kissing/rubbing their clitoris and making them orgasm as well as making out and using toys mybe, i also want to try some positions without penetration like having the woman rubbing her clitoris against my balls or the penis. i am mainly into making the woman orgasm and enjoy herself, this is realy turns me on and i can actualy do sex like that without having orgasm my self most of the time but i do want to get handjob sometimes, especialy from behind.


its all in my fantasy but i am affraid that if i will try to do it with a woman in a relationship she will see me as feminine/weird and leave me cause of this. can i have some opinions from women her? would you live your boyfriend if he want to have sex without like this? only like this? what would you think about this?.
 
There is about 7 women in this world who will do that... as a regular thing... none of then less than 1000 miles from you.

After all, if you get turned on - your dick gets hard.

You can have sex with a woman like a woman as I discovered. After all night orgy fuck fest and I was sooo tired. She just got me off or the 4th time in 4 hours and I'm exhausted from lack sleep, etc.
So she rode my limp wet dick against her slit and clit until she had a few more climaxes.

I told her it was enjoyable, considering I was halfway asleep. She rode me like a lesbian, then again she's been in lesbian relationships so she knew what she was doing.
 
I'm sure women would like the fact that you want to please them rather than yourself, but chances are you're going to run into some issues if you never want to penetrate.
You could try pent rating while scissoring , it's a bit of an awkward angle at first but it's doable as long as you're not both really out of shape.

What is it about penetrate in that you dislike??
 
zirconium said:
i am 22 years old man and just for making it sure i have nothing wrong with my penis and it have normal size and normal erections. i love women but i don't want to have sex in the "regular" way by inserting my penis into them, i want to do it like lesbians with women, mainly licking/kissing/rubbing their clitoris and making them orgasm as well as making out and using toys mybe, i also want to try some positions without penetration like having the woman rubbing her clitoris against my balls or the penis. i am mainly into making the woman orgasm and enjoy herself, this is realy turns me on and i can actualy do sex like that without having orgasm my self most of the time but i do want to get handjob sometimes, especialy from behind.


its all in my fantasy but i am affraid that if i will try to do it with a woman in a relationship she will see me as feminine/weird and leave me cause of this. can i have some opinions from women her? would you live your boyfriend if he want to have sex without like this? only like this? what would you think about this?.
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Hmm, desiring lesbian sex when you are male reminds me of some of my struggles with gender identity. Anything like that going on?

Women who love to receive oral love a guy who loves to give it, but they also desire cock and cum and you have both. Not delivering will lead to their disappointment no matter how good your are at cunninglingus. Penetration is very intimate. Hopefully some women here will elaborate for you further.
 
ChipTrippyFox said:
I'm sure women would like the fact that you want to please them rather than yourself, but chances are you're going to run into some issues if you never want to penetrate.
You could try pent rating while scissoring , it's a bit of an awkward angle at first but it's doable as long as you're not both really out of shape.

What is it about penetrate in that you dislike??
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its not that i dislike penetration its just doesn't turn me on as doing it like a lesbian. i have no real reason to penetrate if doing it like a lesbian is much better for me and hopefuly for my future girlfriend
 
Vados said:
Hmm, desiring lesbian sex when you are male reminds me of some of my struggles with gender identity. Anything like that going on?

Women who love to receive oral love a guy who loves to give it, but they also desire cock and cum and you have both. Not delivering will lead to their disappointment no matter how good your are at cunninglingus. Penetration is very intimate. Hopefully some women here will elaborate for you further.
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i don't have gender issues, i just love to do it like a lesbian and hope to find a woman who won't get disappointed if the sex will be like that instead of the usual way
 
zirconium said:
i don't have gender issues, i just love to do it like a lesbian and hope to find a woman who won't get disappointed if the sex will be like that instead of the usual way
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Ok. I did have to ask as it hit my radar. Minds are so complex and fascinating. Anywho, I'm sure there are women out there who are more than accommodating, but you'll find the dating pool for them to be quite small. The good thing is you know what you want.
 
this is just frot but man to woman

just find a cool girl dont ask just try it out as foreplay and gauge her reactions. one girl will for sure like it
 
pofacedhoe said:
this is just frot but man to woman

just find a cool girl dont ask just try it out as foreplay and gauge her reactions. one girl will for sure like it
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i hope to have a general idea about how many women will want to do it before i try it with women i will date.
 
StarOceanHouse said:
A lot of women cannot orgasm through penetration alone. If you mastered the art of cunninglingus, you'll turn some lesbians. ;)
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Sure, many women love oral and fingers and such. But kind of hard to "turn some lesbians" if you're a male as most of them have no interests in men, penis, hair, male body odor and other aspects that makes men different from women. He's missing tits, ass and the vag. Might as well say "Suck cock like a master, and you'll turn some gay men"... ignoring the desired plumbing issue.

@zirconium : I meant no insult with my post. It shouldn't be difficult to find a woman who will also do it the lesbian way, but she'll like it normal as well.
 
I also like to penetrate, but in some ways I agree with you. I also think a skilled handjob or blowjob is often nicer than vaginal intercourse. foreplay and enjoying my partners body in many ways is also very important for me.

I don't think there is anything wrong with your sexual preferences. :)

and if you are able to make them cum hard and good, I can't imagine that they mind ;)
 
Bagseed said:
I also like to penetrate, but in some ways I agree with you. I also think a skilled handjob or blowjob is often nicer than vaginal intercourse. foreplay and enjoying my partners body in many ways is also very important for me.

I don't think there is anything wrong with your sexual preferences. :)

and if you are able to make them cum hard and good, I can't imagine that they mind ;)
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you had sex with a woman only with giving oral sex/handjob to her and without penetration?, if yes how she reacted?
 
Women generally won't say NO to receiving oral and fingers and/or sex toys. That isn't just for lesbians.
 
zirconium said:
you had sex with a woman only with giving oral sex/handjob to her and without penetration?, if yes how she reacted?
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this happened a lot of times, and usually they are not disappointed ;)

it's also way easier in my opinion to make a woman have a good orgasm by going down on her.
 
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