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Sex Vs. Drugs

lacey k said:
I would hardly say a years long relationship is infatuation buddy. How the hell do you know what I think is love? You dont even know the vaguest details about my relationship with my BF. I would say that not knowing either person involved or any information about their relationship would be a pretty good deterrent to judging and commenting on the relationship, for most people. But, since you know everything, i guess that whole "being clueless about what youre talkin about" thing dont apply. My bad for knowing what I feel.

You proved my point exactly.

Me: I dont wanna bother, cuz youre just gonna try and discredit what im saying.

You: No go ahead, say it.

Me: OK fine. I like this because _____. This is how I feel.

You: Actually, youre wrong. You may think you know, but in reality, just like Ayn Rand, Im the only one who knows the truth of whats really going on, and you know nothing. So, Im right.

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A) I never claimed to know everything or even a lot. What I don't know could fill libraries.

B) I never claimed to be the only person to know "the truths of what's going on(I have no idea who Ayn Rand is). I can't even take original credit for anything I've posted in this thread because I haven't said anything that hasn't already been said by countless people countless times in the past.

C) Seeing how it's very likely that your relationship with your boyfriend shares fundamental similarities with some or most of the hundreds of millions of other intimate relationships in the world, I don't see why someone would have to know you or your boyfriend to have an opinion about what it could be based on. I don't need to know the details to know that the situation probably isn't unique in any remarkable way.

D) Drugs > Sex

Now we know our ABCs, next time won't you sing with me?
 
Thats right. youre right. you win. thanks for telling me the real truth that is completely objective, 100% fact, and not in any way even slightly your own opinion but simply what IS. go you. :)
 
i've never in my life had an O from sex, and don't anticipate that i ever will. and i like more of what leads up to it, anyway, than the actual act, so i wouldn't miss it.

so, i may never in my life O... or maybe i will, it's an unknown... but drugs can always get me off!
 
Actually just drugs, cuz when i'm on drugs and have sex, i'll always sober up after cumming.

Lol, That ain't good is it ?!?
 
GenericMind said:
C) Seeing how it's very likely that your relationship with your boyfriend shares fundamental similarities with some or most of the hundreds of millions of other intimate relationships in the world, I don't see why someone would have to know you or your boyfriend to have an opinion about what it could be based on. I don't need to know the details to know that the situation probably isn't unique in any remarkable way
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She could be dating a huge gangsta ass nig with a 9 inches of power. You never know.
 
slantedenchanted said:
She could be dating a huge gangsta ass nig with a 9 inches of power. You never know.
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Well uh replace gangsta-ass nigga with built like a brick shithouse sexy dutch italian boy.......nuff sed. %) it aint just the brothas whose packin.

But i dont blame generic mind for choosing drugs. I would too if all i had was my palm.

Let me put it like this:

If i wasnt in a relationship then i would choose drugs. But im deeply in love with this person, have been for years, and we have a great relationship free of the majority of shit that is trouble for most couples (cheating, backstabbing, head games, greed over money, stupid fights over stupid incomsequential shit that pop up, PMS, super drama). Cuz of all this, i think its much more important to have sex over drugs. i truly value and treasure my boyfriend as cheezy as that sounds. we been thru so much together it would take a whole post just to list that shit so ill leave it at that. But when you truly love someone you want to be intimate with them and sex is a great way to show your love, and fuck you if you wanna say thats some new age bullshit, cuz it aint. I aint so jaded that i cant appreciate or understand love, if you dont think thats love, keep it to yourself sucka. you may think im the one who just dont understand, but actually I think youre the one who dont understand here. so if you lack the ability to appreciate or respect other peoples feelings as valid just cuz they aint the same as your own, then thats you with the delusions buddy.

Dont get me wrong, sex without love aint shit IMO. the love is what makes it. when you know the other person wants just to make you happy, when you know theres a real meaning behind it when they say "i love you" and it aint just cuz theyre bustin a nut, then thats some real shit, and i wouldnt trade that for a fat shot of dope so if you would, thats you, but dont try and tell me i shouldnt value that more cuz its just me.

So if there was no love, none of that gentleness or care that you get in sex when the other person really care about you, then in that case youre right, sex is just a over hyped obsession of society. But just cuz alot of sex has turned into somethin with no value, dont mean that all sex is worthless or that its nothing more than a body function.

Straight up, put your all into saying how love aint shit and its a creation of our minds just meant to further our species. Just a bunch of hormones right? Well then by that standard you should also not believe in mental illness, cuz its just a bunch of chemicals in the brain creating fake feelings, not a actual thing. to say that would be stupid, and its also stupid for love and the sex that comes from that.

So go head, i used to be a jaded little female with no room for love, no emotion towards other people other than what i could take from them, no room to get hurt, never lettin anyone catch any feelings from me, going thru life like Fuck everyone, fuck love, fuck it all.

But shit changes as you get older. youre young you see everything good. get older, learn that shit sucks, you live work and fuck and then die. get all existential about it. do your thing of the world sucking, people sucking, bla bla bla. Then after you break outta that you mellow out. Im all of 19 years old and i still understand that its better to say fuck the majority, fuck the fact that most fail, might as well try and see how far it can go and then fail , than to just sit there talking about how much everything is beat and stupid and useless and waste your life looking down on everyone and everything that gives pleasure to people and make love to a fucking needle every night instead.

You can understand how fucked up something is while still bein able to see the good that is left in it. you can take shit from a skeptical point of view without losing all your appreciation for small shit. you can look at life as the fucked up chaotic mess of lowlife disgusting , fucked up, twisted degenerate people that it is, but still recognize that not everyone/everything is like that and you aint gotta be that person who insists that everyone elses happiness is fake just cuz you cant find your own. you can look at love, sex, relationships as just a bunch of bullshit or you can see that while many are fucked up, thats life and thats love and it can mean something other than pussy/dick/fighting. as super cool, nihilistic, hip, fight-club-style as it may be to be a cynical jaded fuck looking down on humanity from your cold rational bitter-ass pedestal, its much more fun and rewarding to take the good and bad from life and just live it. maybe when you get older you will start to understand that instead of telling other people their experience is worthless just cuz you personally cant appreciate it.
 
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Lacy, most of what you just said has nothing to do with the point I was trying to make. You wrongfully assumed so much in that post it's ridiculous.

What your post did accomplish was to make obvious your existentialist philosophy on life(kind of ironic how you criticized existentialism as a youthful phase one gets over when they "grow up"). You're basically saying that rationalists can't appreciate and enjoy things in life which is completely untrue.

If you think you can take part in a critical discussion without getting all offended and emotional about it we can continue the conversation in "Thoughts and Awareness" if you want. If we continue here this thread is going to be officially hijacked.
 
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