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Stimulants Sex + Meth

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hh95

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Now its general drug knowledge that Meth increases libido. Well I have been seeing this girl regularly for a few months and we are pretty much fuck buddies with a lot of chemistry going on. I think we may have some feelings involved also. She is absolutely stunning look wise. We slept together for awhile in the start while sober and the sex was amazing. However about a month into the "friendship with benefits" we started to get a little high not wrecked or anything, just a couple of good pulls on the pipe each and then we would get into it and well it made it just a WHOLE lot better. Like seriously lasted fucking AGES. Possibly the best sex i've ever had, But now im finding I am starting to struggle to even get it up anymore with her without Meth. Making this more puzzling it seems to be with this particular girl only. I have no trouble with other girls that I see. But she is the only one I smoke meth with though. I mean its frustrating because we are both so attracted to eachother sexually and im only 19. Its not like im 60 years old with erectile dysfunction. Im wandering do you guys think this is purely psychological? Or what im quiet confused. We are both starting to develop feelings and im sortve thinking about starting a relationship with this girl and well I cant just smoke meth everytime I wanna have sex with her. Any ideas/suggestions. And before you's go for the Viagra... tried it and it didn't work.
Sorry to share my sex life haha
Cheers Bluelighters :)
 
Sex + Meth = Downward Spiral

It's ok that you share your sex life, but you can see by the lack of responses it is a crude topic to be discussing for sure, and perhaps it would be better placed in the Sex, Love and Relationships forum, but anyways I am going to address your concern.

"But now im finding I am starting to struggle to even get it up anymore with her without Meth. Making this more puzzling it seems to be with this particular girl only. I have no trouble with other girls that I see."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

You are really screwing with your brain and reproductive system by continually having sex on meth. You are essentially training yourself to not get sexually aroused fully unless you are high on meth. The meth use is probably exacerbating the Coolidge effect, hence your difficulty in getting it up with the girl you are familiar with.

If you want to rekindle the magnetism between you and this girl, I suggest you start practicing a period of abstinence from both meth and sexual activity, and in a matter of weeks, perhaps days, the fire between you will be raging once more.


 
You have effectively poisoned the water hole. It is psychological, and only time and abstinence from meth and sex will cure the problem.
 
I've been there, the only difference is I didn't use methamphetamine but mephedrone or 3-MMC, perhaps that's even worse actually as I don't really find straight amphetamines to be good libido boosters unless combined with weed. I generally get bored with everything very quickly though. And I guess that's because of my past use of full agonist opioids. I'm not talking about low testosterone now, but that presented itself in a lot of situations too.

Anyway, I fully agree that if you don't stop using meth before sex, then eventually you're going to lose interest in sober sex completely for a longer period of time.
 
Thanks guys and yes I agree maybe a different forum would of been better. And yes I think I have solved my problem too some extent. I have recently stopped using before I have sex and have left it a few days. And voila! The magic is back. Took like 3 days of no sex and no Meth. Was starting to get worried! The problem is I am addicted too meth and much more than 2-3 days without and I start too loop out and REALLY crave. But atm I am juggling sex and meth and realizing if we have sex when I am sober it tends too "mean" a lot more too. Besides I leave for rehab tomorrow and because I really want to get off Methamphetamine. So hopefully when I get back my sexlife will be better than ever.
 
Sex is one of my main justifications for getting high. I've spent damn near entire weekends having sex on various speeds.

I'm such a junkie that I'll justify using opiates a lot just to have better sex.

Ultimately the girl I bet will tell you she likes you enough that the drugs don't matter.

Most sane girls lol don't want marathon porn star sex 3 times a week. Trust me. Plus it can be painful- rug burn, lubrication issues, being sore as fuck the next day. You aren't superman and she knows this.
 
The viagara doesn't work? Dang.. Just got some to help with my pesky ED issues when my missus is home because I have been chuffing on the meth and watching too much porn the weekend before. Fuck I better get that feller behaving itself properly soon or she is going to find out.. FML
 
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