Gormur said:
I find caffeine better than sex
Are you circumcised?
You've made a number of threads about sex over the past four or five months since I joined.
You said (in this thread) the women you slept with were dry and it was like fucking a belt. You said you don't like oral because teeth grinding on your dick make it numb.
It sounds - to me - like you've had dysfunctional sexual experiences. You shouldn't feel teeth on your dick unless you have an enormous cock, which you've said in other posts you don't. Whoever was sucking your dick had no idea what they were doing. The two women you've slept with - you said it was ages ago - were they young and inexperienced?
Caffeine isn't better than sex. I think that's the craziest thing you've said so far. Personally, I think it's weird that other people say
good drugs are better than sex, but I can kind of understand where they're coming from. Caffeine though? Caffeine is an awful drug. Sex is not a drug. People just say that here because this is a drug forum and everything revolves around drugs. Sex is sex.
I suggest you hire a prostitute and I'm
anti-prostitute. This is the first time I've ever suggested to any able-bodied person to go down that route.
I think seeing a professional sex worker might solve your problems. It won't feel like fucking a belt. You won't have teeth grinding on your shaft. So, if nothing else, you'll be able to determine whether or not you physically like the sensation of sex.
If you like the physical sensation of masturbation, you should enjoy the physical sensation of sex. Once you've established that you do/don't, that narrows down what the problem might be.
As someone else mentioned, it isn't uncommon for the first couple of sexual experiences in life to be underwhelming or even unpleasant. My first sexual partner wasn't compatible with me. We were both inexperienced. Neither of us knew what we were doing. It wasn't great. I think this is pretty common.
When I first started experimenting with same-sex stuff, I had too many issues to let go properly and allow myself to enjoy it. I was conflicted.
You said when you watch porn you watch lesbian stuff or female masturbation videos. Why do you think you don't like watching heterosexual sex? Perhaps that is related to your issues.
