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Sex is better sober?

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ashstorm

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I have had some amazing sex on mirad of different substances, but with my new man we both find the sex to better while we're not on anything at all..

Does anyone else have similar experiences? Or have had the most amazing sex fucked off your face on one substance or another?

Until I met my man my sober sex life had been pretty dismal compared to what it was like fucked up..
 
for myself because im a hopeless romantic, i've found the best sex is sober and not clouded with drugs. for me i dont know how much control i have been high (and have had some horrible instances) so sober sex for me is the way to go.
 
When I'm high, I'm too out of it to have sex. So I prefer sober by far. I mean, something like weed, that's cool too. My bf gets so horny on mdma but I get too out of it so I can barely have sex anyway. So all in all, sober for me :)
 
The first time we had sex was on gear, and that experience was mind blowing, legs shaking and left shuddering..

The boy was that over stimulated and his body pushed to the limit.. and left him dry reaching..

But the sober sex..the connection between us is so much clearer, so much more intimate and intense..
 
Sex on various drugs is an incredible change in the usual paradigm of the sexuality between two people; however, IMO sober sex is absolutely sensual, connected and without psychological/sensational boundaries. It is love-making; I can't deny that.

Some of the best sex I have ever had has been on dope or LSD or Mescaline, but all those experiences put together can't match the feeling of staring into someone's eyes during the act and just knowing, just feeling, the reality of love being shared and expressed.

As ashstorm states,
...sober sex..the connection between us is so much clearer, so much more intimate and intense..
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Love that.
I even think sober orgasm during sex is better because it's unencumbered by torrents of neurotransmitter release.
Oxytocin is the best drug ever =D =D

~ vaya
 
From the drugs I've been on, I definitetly say sober is the way to go. I can never orgasm when I'm full of coke/alcohol/vicodin. My fiancé can't really get hard on coke, so he spends half and hour trying to stuff his semi into me before giving up and doing another line. much better sober.
 
Sober by a landslide - definitely not while drunk (I rarely drink, a couple strong drinks and I'm plowed... so I only drink *less than* one drink), as 'whiskey dick' isn't whiskey dick for nothing (:|) [i'm a female, btw]. I am addicted to opiates (heroin, previously - oxycodone and dilaudid) and those just do NOT go together with 'super connected, emotional, mind blowing sex'. Nope. I RARELY think abut sex, which is odd : I used to have a ridiculous sex drive.:! I wonder if that comes back, like to the same extent (as surely it DOES come back, a little at least) when a person gets clean. Or, are they f*cked... hmm.

Weed? Meh - Doesn't really play a huge role in my performance in the sack. EXCEPT for the dry mouth - this can be annoying during 'iiiiintimate times'.

I can tolerate and enjoy low doses of stims: adderall, dexies. Honestly? These days, I'd take drugs over sex. BUT, to the point.

Official answer: sober sex is best. (had ONE of two excellent experiences having sex on mdma - both me and my partner. I had the best orgasm I've had throughout our entire sex life. I STILL say I prefer sober sex)
 
Sex sober and sex on drugs has its own place, if you want raw sex no strings, no brainer sex being fucked up IMO is great, have had awesome nut cumming while kandy flipping, just wow!!!! But on the flip side there is no connection with that person. Sober sex is great with the person you love and have a deep connection with ,sensual, making love, etc......
 
I've only had sex drunk or buzzed on alcohol a few times. It wasn't non-consensual, coerced, or forced since the other person was drunk and we both wanted to have sex.

I didn't really enjoy having sex while drunk on bourbon, or when I've had it buzzed on beer and a shot of Jaeger, or when I've had it buzzed on rum, or just beer.

I don't P&P on any drugs including herb and poppers/Amyl, or anything else. I have friends who have at times while on various drug(s) including pot, poppers/Amyl, MDA/MDMA, crystal meth, crack, heroin and other opiates, and coke.
 
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