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Sex Drive Slaughtered

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I never use to have a problem with jumping into sex right after taking opiates, infact I made a habbit of only engaging in sex when i'm on opiates because it makes me last longer and its a lot more fun but lately its been a total carnage for my sex drive.

Everytime I get horny I pull out the Oxycodone and then just as it begins to kick in I find myself sitting on the computer, I keep telling myself "I gota get up and do this" but then I procrastinate some more and hours go past and then the Oxy wears off and I'm like doh!!! So then I take some more cause I'm still feeling horny and then I spend another few hours on the computer unable to get the will to get up and get into some sex and the cycle just keep repeating itself.

I'm in the process of quiting Oxycodone but then I think to myself I'll just take it once this week to make sex more enjoyable and then I end up wasting the high procrastinating so I try again the next day and the next day and by the end of the week ive just wasted my whole prescription just trying to have sex at least once but failing at it miserably. Any suggestions ?
 
I'm not really sure what your asking. I take opiates for legitamate reasons and they kill my sex drive. I get sexually frustrated cuz I physically can't finish it just takes so damn long. I'd say just do it without if you just need 2 get one off, if that's what your asking. I wouldn't take um for sex. Its good at first and then it kills the fun (for me at least). Hope this helps somehow lol xP
 
Yes, I don't understand, taking opiates for sex. I think that they are two very powerful euphoric states, that are better kept separate.

I am a chronic pain patient, so I can't just skip my opioids if I want to pop one off, because I could be in too much pain to enjoy myself properly. It's all about finding a balance, perhaps you're taking way too much opioids and at the wrong time.
 
I heard of people taking tram to make them last longer. I tried this combo by accident once and it worked good. When I attempted to repeat it I ended up cuddling 'cause I just couldn't/wouldn't do it. It was hard enough to keep it up and I just kept losing my focus so we gave up pretty quickly.
I don't think it's a good idea.
 
I was taking lot's of roxies daily, and I had zero sex drive. When I quit, my libido just sky rocketed. It's insane lol.
 
tricomb said: "Yes, I don't understand, taking opiates for sex."

Actually, I do understand. Very early in my drugging career (I was young and doing relatively small doses), I remember opiates making me horny and enhancing sex. However, that effect didn't last long at all. A lot of drugs interfere with sex drive/performance, but for me opiates are absolute libido killers. If not for that, opiates would far and above be my favorite rec drugs.
 
I'm not really sure what your asking.

Call it wishful thinking but I was just hoping for some advice which had the potential to get me interested in sex again whilst still being on opiates.
Without opiates sex only lasts a few minutes, not even worth the time or effort but with opiates its a whole new world and I find myself going at it for hours, except for one problem; finding the motivation to get me started.

Sex means a lot to me because honestly its the only pleasurable thing I have left in my life, its an escape from my horrible life of misery and I just want it to last as long as possible. I'm not going into detail about how much I hate my life but being a disabled guy stuck at home everyday with a rare debilitating illness and still a virgin living alone and isolated from society and life, I really don't have much else to look forward to or any happy moments unless I'm having a nice fap :)

Before I became disabled I used to love taking ecstacy and meth but ironically it became my downfall when I overdosed on those drugs whilst during an intense sex fest and it resulted in the horrible life I live now when it left me disabled with a damaged Autonomic Nervous System. My body was so messed up that I thought I'd never be able to have sex again because for the first 8 years following the overdose I was constantly overheating and any attempts even a simple arousal sent me into hyperthermia and sever muscle spasms and irregular heart. So recovering just enough to be able to have sex once again is awesome for me, however I can never use heavy drugs like ecstacy or meth again due to my damaged Autonomic Nervous System as it is exteremely hypersensitive to such hardcore substances, so all I have is opiates to work with.
 
If you can, take lower doses. Once I hit the ultimate poppy bed, heroin, coming was out of the question. Tramadol, however, I could, but it took a committed partner who had a genuine interest in being in bed for hours, and it took much added effort to keep her satisfied. Really, w/ any opiates, you can only take low doses, and then still expect to last considerably longer, and possibly not come.

Additionally, I may be odd, b/c the only drug I've had make sex really more enjoyable is weed - when it doesn't confine me to introspection. Cocaine, mdma, dissociatives, hallucinogens, opiates, and alcohol, all present their own detractors. Not to say it isn't pleasant to just be sensual while on opioids and mdma, especially, but for a holistically mind-wiping experience, I'm happiest when I'm sober, healthy, and limber =D
 
Heroin was great early on making me last "to infinity and beyond" but after not being able to bust for like 2 years became a drag. After a while, the sensation of sex was dulled almost completely to where I couldn't maintain an erection without constant intense work on both my and my girls part. Though I'll say this, after coming off dope, woohoo, drive went through the roof. P.S.- Meth does make sex fantastic, I got my foil boat ready if anyone wants to toss me a bit =D
 
I love sex and usually miss it if I don't have it. But frankly, when I was high on narcotics I really didn't care. Sometimes I'd go down on my gf just to get her off, but I didn't want anything in return.
 
Yes, I don't understand, taking opiates for sex. I think that they are two very powerful euphoric states, that are better kept separate.

I am a chronic pain patient, so I can't just skip my opioids if I want to pop one off, because I could be in too much pain to enjoy myself properly. It's all about finding a balance, perhaps you're taking way too much opioids and at the wrong time.

------>> Chronic pain here as well, I too have my opiates, that i Love, being honest, For over 15 years now, and when i was younger it ruined my sex drive and my hystorectomy at 27 didnt help, anything at all. As I am older now still on my opiates and have a sex drive but now its my BF issue, he was diagnosed with Diabetes 5 years ago and his sex drive is gone gone gone....
 
I'm not going into detail about how much I hate my life but being a disabled guy stuck at home everyday with a rare debilitating illness and still a virgin living alone and isolated from society and life, I really don't have much else to look forward to or any happy moments unless I'm having a nice fap :)

So the opiates are for masturbation? Try the start n stop method. Jerk till you're about to girk, then stop. Sometimes you gotta pause the porn too. Then whe buoy start to go a little limp, start! Repeat for hours : )
 
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