Sex drive reducer

[AbraMontague]

Are you sure your girlfriend isn't having her sexual needs fulfilled by someone else and just doesn't have any energy left for you?
If you do convince her to try stimulants, remember that lower doses are better. 30mg Adderall bid is more than enough to destroy my sex drive (i think about sex but its not always as appealing, for guys at least, when it takes an hour to orgasm). Take less of whatever stimulant than you would normally take to get a buzz and that should stimulate her sex drive rather than diminish it.
Benzos and alcohol will make it easier to get her to have sex but it doesn't mean she will enjoy it.

 

[michael]

Originally posted by madsic:
Saltpeter, aka potassium nitrate.
bogus myth. saltpeter does not reduce sex drive.

 

[Drug Dustbin]

Originally posted by fairnymph:
^^^
Benzos can reduce sex drive/ability to orgasm...if he wants to rile his gf up, he should give her some stimulants or GHB.
On the other hand, benzodiazepines are known to cause behavioural disinhibition and sexual excitement. This can manifest itself for example as an increase in sexual fantasies. A number of case reports have also described sexual disinhibition with especially with clonazepam, which is a high-potency benzodiazepine.

 

[Rayda]

Deus, you might want to try re-posting this in health Q&A to get some more compassionate and sensible answers. But the first thing you need to do is ignore the crass and fascetious suggestion to rape your girlfriend. You probably already know that in America, girlfriends are NOT legally responsible for getting anyone off and making her a rape victim will ensure that she has even less interest in both you and sex.
It's not a good idea to bury this problem with drugs as this will most likely mean that your relationship will probably not last the distance. Have you tried talking to your girlfriend about why she doesn't like sex? There's probably an underlying reason why she gets nervous. It could be something simple like a lack of experience, unsure of her feelings for you or something more serious. Perhaps she's been the victim of sexual abuse?? Keep talking to her (without pressure or laying guilt trips) until she confides and have a wank in the meantime. Or even better, encourage her to do it for you. If she can't bring herself to do that, this might give you a bigger clue as to whats going on. Good luck.

 

[shorza]

Just spank tha monkey. Simple.

 

[PhreeX]

Originally posted by Rayda:
But the first thing you need to do is ignore the crass and fascetious suggestion to rape your girlfriend. You probably already know that in America, girlfriends are NOT legally responsible for getting anyone off and making her a rape victim will ensure that she has even less interest in both you and sex.No way, she is his GIRLFRIEND, so LEGALLY she is responsible for making sure that his sexual needs are fullfilled .. now one they get MARRIED then things are totally cut and dry - if sheever cried rape he would just have to open his wallet, get out the marriage licence (the laminated ones that say "Owner and sole controlling entity of __________") and show it to the cop, *BAM*, yer of the hook and she might even get a ticket! Until yer married you don't have the licence so you have to prove she is your girlfriend.. now if you had forced her to sign the Letter of Protection (where she states she understands her rights granted by you and that you are currenlty her owner) it's easy, if not, you will simply need a few of your friends to vouch for her ..
She may scream for help, scratch at your eyes and fight - but *YOU'RE* not the one in the wrong here.. of course seditives used in large primates or made from industrial strength cleaners are a WONDERFULL way to cut down on the yelling and fighting... they also help make for foggy memories and as we all know, that makes for a POOR WITNESS FOR THE PROSECUTION!
I am sure if Deus wants the perspective offered in any other forum, he can mive this thread to that forum, otherwise I think he is getting lots of good advice right here!

 

[Oldman2]

Are you out of your mind?????
I wouldn't want to reduce my sexdrive for a million bucks!!
The better (best!) way: Say goodby to your girlfriend and look for another girl!!!!!!!
Once you have succeeded to reduce your sexdrive, you'll never know, what the longterm effect's will be on you little willy!!!
And you never know, if your girlfriend doesn't say goodbye to you tomorrow, leaving you with "no more sexdrive" for another guy, who screws her to hell...
If your girl has a sex(drive) problem, don't count on it, that it will go away over the years or if you (two) get married!!!
I'd say, there is no future for you two, having such (sexdrive) differences.
Keep your sexdrive and look for a girl, who can handle.... IT!!
I know, what I'm talking about, through years and years of (life/relationship) experiences.... and I had the same problem with my own sexdrive and my ex-wife... Here "non-interest" became worse over the years and me, hoping for better times, became frustrated. After 10 years, it was enough and I ran into that other woman....
(I got divorced, married the other woman, and we are really happy ever since the past 13 years and I still feel stupid, that I've spend so much time with my ex, hoping for a change, that never showed up.... A real waste of time and effort for both of us, for my ex and for me!!)
With my second wife, I REALLY enjoy life, we have a very active, adventurous, interesting, satisfying sexlife; go to (swinger)clubs, take some xtc once in a while, have erotic evenings with good friends, etc. etc.. -
My ex became involved very much in a religious community and is obviously happy too, since there is no man anymore, expecting more sex from her.)
Oldman
[ 24 May 2002: Message edited by: Oldman2 ]

 

[fairnymph]

Say goodby to your girlfriend and look for another girl!!!!!!!
From an SLR point of view, I have to agree. If sex is important to you, maybe you should consider finding a woman who values sex as much as you do...
I know that I couldn't date someone nonsexual (or virtually so)...and I can't imagine how any healthy sexual person would.
Sex is a MAJOR compatibility issue in romantic relationships.