I find there are good things about both house parties and clubs/doofs! A few months ago my friends and i were meant to go out clubbing but somehow ended back at my friends place and i had the best roll of my life. Just 8 or so friends perfect choice of music, lots of chatting, hugging, sex and really getting to know your friends better. Since then we've been doing the house party thing more often...as long as everyone there is rolling its cool...if its a big party and only a few are on a pill it can feel pretty weird.
on the other hand i love coming up with a huge crowd around me, and talking to randoms...nothing beats the atmosphere of good doofs!