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Serious question!! (preferably asking men) but ladies feel free to answer away!

just have trust and faith that it is so. its all you can do really. if its any consolation, men do wonder about the same thing from time to time.
 
if he is a proven partner ie. you have been with him awhile and he still respects you,then you should be grand

p.s if hes hiding his phone calls emails or money then hes getting ready to jump ship or at least attempting too,lol
 
You know some people simply like having privacy. You know, solitude and things that are solely their own... Without having anything to hide. You know, it's a pure, innocent desire with no implications of separation/deception.
Weird concept to grasp, right?
 
Is he around? Does he want your attention? Does he reply to your calls and messages? Does he show interest? You know...all the things girls don't like a man to do.
 
You be in a relationship and allow the experiences to unfold that answer for you. Even if you ask, remember that actions speak louder than words.
 
Two signs from my own life: If he is no longer interested in dating other women. If he wants to give you things to make you happy.
 
^^ LOL Dr. Rabid.

OP, even if he loves you now, he might not love you later. That's the frustrating part about it. The only thing you can really do is enjoy the moment but always be true to yourself and listen to your gut.
 
There isn't just "one way" to know. There are so many variables!
Some things include
- turning down "guys nights" to spend time with you (sometimes)
- introducing you to his family and friends
- not hiding anything from you
- being honest to you
- complimenting you
There are a ton of other things, those are just some things I can think of off the top of my head. It isn't foulproof but there are tons of things a guy can do to show that he loves you!
 
Easy I really love a girl when I get jealous jealous isent the right word but when it pisses me of to see her with other dudes or when I reed something about her. And when I want I am trying to spend every free moment I have with her and when I always have a smile on my face when Im with her ...
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Usally its hard to tell if they love you back but usaly they do. If you have been spending time with him and he tocuhes you like not sexually but likes to trip you when he walks by or puts his arm around you at every chance or just a poke in the side. Stuff like that and hell try to be clsoe to you.

Try walking away and if he comes to you almost everytime it meens he likes you :)
 
I would ask OP why do you ask? Do you want to know if he loves you or does any other decision depend on the knowledge?

Because I have come to believe that people mean different things when they say love. And it's a matter of finding someone whose definition of love is similar to your own. And still not be surprised if he thinks that he can bang some other twat and say afterwards sincerely that it has nothing to do with his love for you (and still be truthful!) It's just how he sees love.

But if you're asking because you don't know what state you are in your relationship and are too timid to ask, then you shouldn't be asking about love but commitment.

And finally... My psych (=psychiatrist) recently told me after I ranted on and on how hard is my breakup because we still kinda love each other. He started laughing and said: "Love! Pfft! Love comes and love goes. This is THE LAST THING you should consider during your breakup."

And I realized he is right. It doesn't matter if we still love each other. If we can't make it work and hurt each other in the process as much as we do... Then love really doesn't matter.
 
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