wonderlost
Greenlighter
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- Jul 9, 2016
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Positive self talk is a wonderful tool to use to change that voice that tells you don't deserve to love yourself. Talk in the mirror and tell yourself that YOU ARE WORTH (happiness) (being sober) (a promotion) (support system) whatever you are feeling low about. I think I looked to others and my pills to make me happy. When they weren't making me happy I was angry.
I was taught positive self talk and I use to think it was silly and laugh while looking in the mirror or saying it to myself but I still did it a few times a day. Then one day I stated thinking how worthless I was and I swear I spoke out loud and said I am worth being happy. Finally, that part of me that had been buried under that hate came out and has stayed out. I also would write letters and then burn them to get out any frustration I was having specifically after a trying day which I think helped with the dreams.
I also have some PTSD and therapy is what taught me the positive self talk. I also started taking my anti-depressants regularly. I hope you find something that helps but you need to find that happiness inside of you that you deserve. Lots of best wishes to being happy.
I was taught positive self talk and I use to think it was silly and laugh while looking in the mirror or saying it to myself but I still did it a few times a day. Then one day I stated thinking how worthless I was and I swear I spoke out loud and said I am worth being happy. Finally, that part of me that had been buried under that hate came out and has stayed out. I also would write letters and then burn them to get out any frustration I was having specifically after a trying day which I think helped with the dreams.
I also have some PTSD and therapy is what taught me the positive self talk. I also started taking my anti-depressants regularly. I hope you find something that helps but you need to find that happiness inside of you that you deserve. Lots of best wishes to being happy.