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TDS Self Affirmation v. Compliment Yourself!

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Kieko

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Okay, as addicts we get stuck in negitivity mode...but I want to hear three things that you really like about yourself. And the one thing you want to change the most.

I'll start...
I've got a great personality.
I'm a very hard worker.
I'm very loyal.

I want to learn how to deal with problems head on-not just clean and sober but the ability to handle my shit in the correct manner in the appropriate time span.
 
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Great thread Kieko..

1A. Im a good Father
1. I'm nonjudgmental and pretty caring
2. I'M a pretty good thinker
3. Brave, daring and adventurous.
4. I'm an eternal optimist



Oh and Im really great in bed and good looking and cool as hell, and... alright i'll stop oh and i;m good at stopping.. OH AND I'M HUMBLE =D
 
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^lol.... I love it when people can think out more than three...
Come on bluelighters....
Tell me what you like about yourself
 
I know a little bit about a lot of things.
Extremely independent and resourceful.
Very creative, lots of hobbies and interests, rarely bored.

OK?
 
Love this idea!!

1) I am intelligent.
2) I am a great listener.
3) I am a good friend.
 
I'm non judgmental
I'm able to compliment people (which I used to be too insecure to do) which means I am now confident in myself as well :).
 
1. i have a positive outlook on life in general and the future
2. i want the best for everyone around me and would put their wellbeing before mine
3. i have life survival smarts (a part of me is a donkey carrying books tho)
4. i am sure of myself and my purpose in life in a vague sense, i know each step i take on the path i will understand the final destination a bit better

that was really hard for me to do, its like an interview question i would have used to have dreaded and freaked out if a PR person asked me that

a year ago i wouldnt have replied in this thread though so thats another positive thing <3

ps i love this thread idea as well!
 
I find joy in helping others (which I believe is a good trait) some people enjoy watching others fail, I think that it is the ole Misery loves company. I've accepted I don't want to live in misery and I want company in not living in it. (It's the same thing only the reverse effect =D)

I think the world is essentially comprised of good people.

LOL NSA I saw you did there too! <3 hahaha love it!

Love this thread idea btw :) It glows of positive self image :) Something we all need to learn in sobriety (as many addicts are self-loating). To love ourselves and see that we are good people deserving of happiness.
 
i'm smart
i'm good looking
if i like you i'm a very nice and caring person
if i could change one thing about myself i would use my medications more responsibly
 
^+1. You're a good guy, C.H. <3 :)

I have nice eyes
I'm open minded
I can handle myself well in most situations, even if I think I might not be able to
I believe in the good in all people
 
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