sad

i cut off contact with a good friend today. i can't handle his emotional issues and random accusations any more. i feel super alone now because he was the person i always turned to for support when i was going thru confusing times. it makes me feel very alone

its not my husband. and i know i have other friends but i think i became dependent on this other person for providing certain emotional supports i didn't get from other friends. i can't really talk to my other friends about it because it involves a lot of private drama between the two of us that i don't really want to air.

i want this stupid trip to be over.

 

I'm sorry to hear this, A_C. If you ever want to chat just for the fuck of it (hell, we haven't chatted in FOREVER, girl!) get your ass on yahoo messenger!!!!

 

Ohh....A_C, I'm so sorry

I do understand though, when you have to let go of someone b/c it is best for you.
Ir sucks but sometimes necessary.

 

Its frustrating because he is (was?) my closest friend. But I can not deal with his jealousy... he has created this whole theory that I am ignoring him and using him as an excuse to see another friend. He refuses to be near this other friend and gets angry any time I want to see him. So to avoid that, I decided to stay a few nights at the other friend's house and then go to his house for the remainder of the trip. But apparently this makes me a bad friend.

 

Ugh, drama like that is just terrible. I'm sorry to hear about this, but it really sounds like you've made the right decision. His attitude is toxic, and it's the last thing that you need to have in your life. I hope that he is able to figure out that he needs to change, and I hope that you are able to get the support you need from those who are able to give it.

I know that it's not the same as talking to a friend IRL, but if you need, my PM box is always open.

 

Have been having problems with a once close friend of mine too, again recently. Its really hard losing that attachment but if you both cant sort the problem out there's only going to be resentment so...If someone doesnt trust you, and feels threatened by you(whether real /imagined) - it, it will be constant drama and game playing...personally, not something I could handle and wouldnt consider it a proper friendship! :/
Hope you realise that they are probably just projecting how they feel about themselves onto you so dont blame yourself.
Very often people with trust issues are dragging alot of past hurt around and looking at situations present, based on this toxic history.

 

thanks guys

this entire mess is just incredibly frustrating. and none of this should be an issue. we are all fucking adults.

 

well, we aren't all fucking (that would prolly complicate this way more), but we are all adults

 

^hahahaha