Room 5

Another blog.

Last night I realized that I've been sharing my weaknesses too much with people (who I've never met), and if I keep doing that, then I might not ever get to meet them, or continue to socialize with them.

It would be nice to meet a bunch of bluelighters, the ones I''ve spoken to - but also I need to get offline, out into the sun, and see the real people already in my life - be thankful for what I already have and build on those relationships. Which is something I haven't made the effort to do enough before - always seeking greener pastures.

I make the excuse I have nothing to do - I have plenty to do.

Sharing tales of sexual antics is one thing, but sharing everything else is too much - I share too much information about myself.

A year ago I made a conscious decision to not talk so much, and listen more, and I will start doing the same thing online as well - talk less, watch things more...when I'm researching stuff online, or writing emails etc.

I've got a lot to learn, and I'm going to powerhouse it!!

Art to share, love to share, music to share, smiles to share.

 

I dunno man, I don't think any less of you for sharing your weaknesses. Everyone's human, and has their struggles. If anything, it makes your online persona more genuine. Self-editing is unhealthy in the end, although everyone does it to an extent online.

I'd still have a pint with ya, problems or no!

 

thanks for the comment, man...I I wouldn't be self editing per se(if I was, I'd go back desperately running through all my past bl posts and deleting loads of stuff!!!) - more taking the time to share the good stuff with people here and "IRL", unless I had a question for others on how to change something negative about my personality/way of doing things... I just mean that I give people a bad idea of myself - online and off - by not thinking before I act/talk/type.

I will use my better judgement, that's all.