Relationship purgatory

[Memman]

I've been in this weird/pathetic relationship/friendship with H for years now. I'm the only person she hangs with. Even her brother doesn't want to see her too much.
She's small, beautiful, can keep up with me when we drink, funny, no filter, fun, I was met at bar we worked at, went to same college, hung out almost every day, when I asked her on a date she said no and that she only saw me as her best friend, a brother. Fuck me right. So I stopped calling her. didn't want to hang out with someone as a friend when I really wanna fuck them. then we stopped talking completely. she called me after a summer she got on a fight with her bf, trashed an neighbors apartment and was almost arrested for it. I figured we still had fun even though I had blue balls the whole time. We started hanging out and drinking together again, laugh at stupid stuff, make eachother think, good stuff right. Then we had started to have sex when we got drunk and it was good(when she's not laying there and makes me do all the work) I asked her why she didn't want to date...really. says she won't date me because I'm overweight. I'm not obese. I'm not overly fat (my gut doesn't stick out past my chest) but she has no problem hanging out, teasing me, and having drunk sex once in awhile. (Told me she has to be drunk to sleep with me) She sleeps with every guy at her work, and tells me about it. Recently she got a dwi and thrown out of her place on the first of March and the property owner kept the months rent she had already paid, she had 1 semester left for her BA and the closest family lives in Kansas, so I let her stay with me till she could get on her feet. While she stayed with me, she became very 'friendly' calling me babe, wearing as little cloths as possible. I went along then she became cold, started talking to her old bf again. She still says I'm her best friend, but teases me when we drink. All of this has driven me to the brink of sanity, angry, happy, sad, horny, and everything else in between.
She's graduated now, paid of her dwi, she's leaving, but I need to figure out if I'm gonna just cut her off completely.
I need advice. should I cut her off, or am I just being a sensitive bitch?

 

[ed.ston]

I think she's stringing you along man, using you whenever it benefits her. I think she doesn't respect you at all and clearly does not want a relationship with you. Life is too short to waste time with people that don't appreciate you for who you are.

Cut her off completely and find someone who makes you happy. Best of luck.


edit: I don't know you two, I'm only judging by your post here.

 

[Bearlove]

Cut her off. She seems like she is abusing your friendship and simply using you. If the relationship was mutual and you felt the same way then it wouldn't be as much of a problem but you don't and she knows that she can string you along.

 

[anniegram]

Sounds like she's using you, and is willing to drop you the minute something "better" comes by. I would personally distance myself from her, with the exception of if she wants to hang out for no gain on her part other than your personal company. That's my barometer of people usually. If they won't spend time with you without some sort of gain on their part, they aren't a true friend.

 

[CoastTwoCoast]

This pissed me off reading it. Please cut that bitch OFF! She is nothing but a user and you're only hurting yourself by keeping her in your life. She told you she has to be drunk to have sex with you, how insulting! She doesn't deserve your friendship and kindness. These type of girls will take and take from you as long as you keep giving. So stop fucking with her and don't look back.

 

[Hurhel]

Let her go.
She doesn't respect or love you.
Love yourself enough to move on.
She's abusing your kind heart.
Find someone that can love you right back. Youn deserve better.
Tell her to go to hell !!!
Dumb bitch.