Buddhists aim for detachment, that s not my understanding at all:-
He who experiences the unity of life sees his own Self in all beings, and all beings in his own Self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye.
In the sky, there is no distinction of east and west; people create distinctions out of their own minds and then believe them to be true.
Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.
My interpretation is that we must look within for peace and not to external things but that intimately the universe is one, there is only one, it came from one and is still one, individualism is an illusion, or an affectation of the human condition.
I Guess this discussion belongs somewhere else, I am not looking to make and biog statement or question your interpretation or belief TNH I've got to much on my hand with these fekin penguins