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Random MSN Gibberings CI: Art Appreciation for Beginners

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Saw that all over Fb. Terrible stuff. And some cunt ruined the film for me in their status. Bastard.

Didn't end up sleeping until about 5 or 6 this morning, haha. But I awoke feeling refreshed anyway. It was just a bit tiring and irritating lying there for hours trying to shut my mind off. I definitely dosed too late. ;)

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third eye squeegee said:
Given the title of this iteration of the Gibberings thread, you might like this:

An Artist's Self-Portraits While On Various Drugs
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That's pretty awesome. :D
 
I feel shit, not just because of the horrible news posted int this thread but because of the other stuff posted in my online dating thread. Sucks being rejected twice in a weeks span, I guess there are plenty more fish, there is one fish that is too far away from me that is perfect but I can't be with her, so I guess I'll keep looking locally.
 
Mugz said:
I feel shit, not just because of the horrible news posted int this thread but because of the other stuff posted in my online dating thread. Sucks being rejected twice in a weeks span, I guess there are plenty more fish, there is one fish that is too far away from me that is perfect but I can't be with her, so I guess I'll keep looking locally.
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Careful. It's easy to idealise sombody and build up an unrealistic image of them from a distance. It's even easy enough when they're in the same fucking room all the while, especially if you labour under the illusion that any holes in your life can be fixed by the presence of 'someone special'. In my experience it doesn't really work quite like that.

Anyway, it's just one brush-off on a dating website, that's all. In real life you can get brushed off several times in the space of an evening, y'know? Or so my less-patently-irresistible friends inform me.
 
it's been two massive rejections in one week though, I hate dealing with rejections, I have little to no self confidence as it is, need to find a bird quickly to give me some confidence back.
 
Mugz said:
need to find a bird quickly to give me some confidence back.
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A very treacherous and usually-unrewarding path to take yourself down.

Staking your confidence and self-worth on the presence of another person is a sure road to total meltdown when said person isn't part of your life anymore (which is almost inevitable in the long run, no matter how hard you might fall for each other to begin with).

That's if you even manage to succeed in attracting somebody when you're in that frame of mind; I can tell you it's not at all easy to begin with, and there's the added danger of latching yourself on to the first thing that comes along. Which can be a really, really grave mistake.
 
SamhainGrim said:
A very treacherous and usually-unrewarding path to take yourself down.

Staking your confidence and self-worth on the presence of another person is a sure road to total meltdown when said person isn't part of your life anymore (which is almost inevitable in the long run, no matter how hard you might fall for each other to begin with).

That's if you even manage to succeed in attracting somebody when you're in that frame of mind; I can tell you it's not at all easy to begin with, and there's the added danger of latching yourself on to the first thing that comes along. Which can be a really, really grave mistake.
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That;s my main weakness when it comes to women
 
It's something I've done as well, so don't think I'm not speaking from experience. Bitter experience at that.

It's difficult to learn to hold back, question things and strike the right balance between openness and borderline cynicism, but it's something that's well worth doing.

I've been single for over a year now, and for all the obvious downsides I'm convinced that I'm doing the right thing. There's no harm in holding back and waiting for someone who blows you away, nor is there harm in getting to know someone slowly. If anybody tells you that there's a certain timeframe within which you have to make a move on a woman you meet lest you run the risk of becoming nothng more than a friend, they're talking out of their arse. That or they're not very good at sustained flirting campaigns.

Seriously, stop searching so furiously and just enjoy yourself.
 
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