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Question about kissing and glasses

zephyr

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This is a relatively simple problem, but I was wondering if anyone else has an issue about having a full on pash when they are wearing glasses? Do you casually take them off and kiss or is there some way of kissing and embracing whilst you, your partner or both of you wear them?

And what about sex? I can't see too well without the spectacles, prefer to not wear them but can only wear contacts rarely as my eyes hate them.

I don't see too many passionate sex scenes in movies or anyone really out and about having a decent snog when glasses are blocking the way of the face being pulled in close for a snog.

Is this a dumb question? Prolly, but I feel clumsy kissing a boy when the gogs are on, cant see without the damn things and don't want to squish them!

Halp please :(%)%)%)
 
When I had a girlfriend, my glasses would always get in the way. Usually as soon as we got onto a bed, my glasses would come off.
If you're about to have a foreplay/kissing session, take off your glasses before you start. If this is with someone you don't know, just stop for half a second and put your glasses next to you/somewhere. I don't think somebody is going to get offended that you want to be more visceral and passionate.
If I tried to fuck with glasses, I'd be able to see less than without because they'd get so fucking foggy. Not to mention, if they don't fall off at least once you're probably doing it wrong ;)

If you're wearing glasses all the time, it's obviously because you can't see long distances (unless they're bi-focal) but in my case, they're only for long vision, so I'd be able to see my partners face better without them anyway because we were so close.

I think you're just over thinking/analysing a simple issue. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill, yada yada. There's nothing to be worried about. Just take your glasses off when they're getting in the way, and put them on when they won't interfere/you need them to interfere with your vision.

It's not just you, so don't feel special/different. This will happen to literally anyone with glasses on, and all anyone (you) has to do is take them off.

Enjoy your sex life :)
 
I wear glases and I have stabbed my fiancee in the eye plenty of times xD For quick kisses or a little snog out and about then it's not a big issue, just gott get the angle right. When getting busy at home though, it's a non-issue since I don't wear my glasses to bed anyways. They'd get bent and broken if I did :p
 
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This is a cute question, and I had to think about it for a second, but I haven't kissed or dated someone with glasses. LOL An ex of mine wore contacts, and he would wear glasses when they would bother him, but by the time he wore the glasses in front of me, we were comfortable and he would take them off before going to bed/nookie. :)

I'm a passionate person, so I would probably kiss him and let his glasses fall off to which he would be pissed if they got scratched. LOL
 
Never been a big obstacle, but I prefer them off, even though I can't see for shit without them. Besides, I clean them enough times per day already.
 
I always take mine off if it's it getting serious, otherwise just leave them on. It's also never been a big issue, and you can do it smoothly if you do it while unhooking a bra or something else.
 
You could turn the whole "glasses coming off" thing into a really cute code for "getting busy". I'd find it super hot if the two of us were watching TV together and I look over and she takes her glasses off. Over time. it'd probably turn into a Pavlovian response. Glasses off/Instant hard-on. Kind of funny really but try to enjoy and have fun with it.
 
I wear glasses and they can sometimes get in a way when kissing. I take them off before sex and if I forget to, they always remind me of their presence in a negative way during the act, so I remove them anyway. The distance between me and the girl is close enough for me to see ok :)
 
I only just recently switched to contacts but never had any problems kissing when I wore glasses (though I've never kissed a guy who had some too). I took them off for sex though. I feel like it would have been weird with.
( I also reaaally can't see much without them but IME it was really fine :) )
 
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