^ I'm curious to why the gym staff member was so vague about it. But who knows. The whole situation is weird as fuck if you ask me.
I agree with this too. The way RL wrote about what the gym guy said made it sound really shifty.
Seems like you're dealing with it well though RL. I agree with not showing any fear, I think being fairly indifferent to him, like you're doing, is the best course of action.
T. Calderone said:
I'd try this approach: Next time you see him, tell him you saw a purple Nissan parked by such and such business. But it sped off before you could get the plate number.
I know you've already said you wouldn't say this, RL. But I wouldn't mention it also because of the real possibility the purple car doesn't even exist. The guy seems to have gone off on a few different tangents now, which don't all seem very plausible. It wouldn't be great to play along with a game only to have the guy
know you're lying to him or trying to manipulate him.
Fjones said:
how about, "The guy was making me afraid for my life, and I am concerned about what he might do to me or others."
Just IMO, I don't agree saying this is a good idea. Unless you
are actually scared for your life, which it doesn't seem like you are, I think saying this would appear to be giving the situation far more concern than it deserves. Saying you're scared for your life is a pretty big statement, and saying it to the gym staff seems passive, and gives this guy too much power. If you
were scared for your life, I think you'd probably deal with it in another way rather than telling the gym staff.
I hope it all works out for you RL, it does seem like you're handling it well. Good on you not letting it get to you too much or letting it intimidate you, I know I would be feeling pretty damn uncomfortable after all that.