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premature ejaculation PE help

That's helpful advice and good for you !!!!!
Have you any views on viagra or sideanfil then in that context? Maybe we are not all as good as you at the second time around??
I have read that while viagra is useless in preventing premature ejaculation, it does help with prolonging the second time around?
 
Takes balls to admit you have this..
there are some lubricants with numbing anesthetic properties for you to use on your junk. If I had PE I'd go that route before I ever tried to solve this problem with pills.
 
Yeah I should say I agree drugs shouldn't be your go to solution for this. I think you can solve your problem with some old fashioned communication and some changes to how you guys have sex. SSRIs are serious shit and shouldn't be fucked with without a doctor overseeing it.
 
No intention of using drugs like ssri without medical supervision-good advice! I will try an anesthetized lubricant though as that sounds safe enough. How long do they take to take effect? Any brands that work well? Food for thought.
 
rjdof123 said:
That's helpful advice and good for you !!!!!
Have you any views on viagra or sideanfil then in that context? Maybe we are not all as good as you at the second time around??
I have read that while viagra is useless in preventing premature ejaculation, it does help with prolonging the second time around?
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Regardless, even without the use of viagra the second time lasts longer. Trust me, give it a shot... the only challenge for some is maintaining an erection if your one of those fellas who are built to fire once. Your much less sensitive and aroused after that first orgasm.
 
VitamaN said:
Takes balls to admit you have this..
there are some lubricants with numbing anesthetic properties for you to use on your junk. If I had PE I'd go that route before I ever tried to solve this problem with pills.
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Why? What would be the problem of admitting something you have and are not ashamed?
After all that´s why we are here. Being honest with yourself and recognizing your limits is the first step of success according to hundred thousand millions of people. And major entrance door knowledge about AA, NA, .,.
 
I have the opposite problem... Takes me FOREVER to finish (unless I choose to finish in the first minute.. Which I don't for obvious reasons... After that it's at least a half hour)

But they make lube/condoms that desensitize you. Maybe try that?
Also it's pretty difficult for most women to have a vaginal orgasm, so if you want her to finish oral sex is probably your best bet. (Although everyone is different)
 
Doldrugs said:
Because there's enormous social pressure to be "manly" and premature ejaculation is considered very unmanly. It has a stigma. Is this really a serious question?
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Yes, of course.
I believe the issue, or this problem as you mention, has to solved indeed, however, you don´t need to feel bad about yourself.
Try whatever it works best for you and your health and remember that if someone cares about you, that should be okay.
After all we are more than our sexual display.
 
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