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Pregnancy Scare, beyond terrified

Alright, well It's been about 2 and a half weeks, and I have calmed down but my concern is always in the back of my mind. I talked to her the other day and she said she will take a pregnancy test this weekend if I insist. She's clearly not worried and probably completely annoyed by my concern but I insisted so I suppose I'll know for sure by this weekend.

She said she is especially not concerned because she started bleeding a few days after taking the pill. Although I know that is not at all a guarantee, so that did nothing to ease my mind. Still I'm grateful for everyone's help here. Pagey, you have been very kind and considerate about answering these questions for me and I appreciate that.
 
So it's been 20 days since it happened and she took a pregnancy test just now and it came out negative. Did we take it too early or should this be pretty accurate? It was an EPT test that said it was accurate up to 5 days before a missed period and I believe hers is about 3 days away. It was also roughly 13-14 days past ovulation.
 
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No reason for it not be accurate. Please don't doubt the pregnancy test as well. This is definitely enough to confirm she's not pregnant :)
 
Lol in the back of my mind I have been reluctant to trust the test. But I do feel like it's pretty unlikely at this point, ill be completely relieved when her period comes. Hopefully the plan b doesn't effect it too much.
 
Oh my goodness dear...I thought for sure you finally be relieved when the test came back negative! Stop worrying now..between the condom, the Plan B pill and a negative pregnancy test you are fine.she is not pregnant..will you have no relief until 9 months has passed and you are not holding a baby?

You never said if you went to the doc yourself...I would definately follow through with that plan..this is a lot of anxiety over something that is way out of proportion to the actual threat. I hate to think of you being so miserable..you make me tired just thinking about you and your situation.

Take care (and don't worry anymore). <3
 
^Basically this...also don't obsess over her period at this point, it might come late/be a bit weird because she took the morning after pill. She's not pregnant - please try to see someone for help with your anxiety <3
 
Damn, brother! I'm pretty OCD myself, but if I were in your shoes, I would feel so incredibly relieved after learning that the pregnancy test came out negative.
 
I don't know, I guess I just so thoroughly convinced myself that this happened that now Its actually hard to accept that's it's unlikely. Still in the back of my mind I am terrified I'm going to get a text from her saying we need to talk or something, that it was a false negative and we tested too early but I guess once again ill just have to wait it out.

I don't expect anyone to say much else on the situation. Everyone had been incredibly kind, optimistic and encourage. Which I'm grateful for, I'm scheduling an appointment with my doctor tomorrow about this horrible anxiety because I'm nearly at my breaking point with this. So I can update everyone on that later on.
 
Seriously, you have thought about this too much for such a little chance. Clearly you have deep fears about being a father. Get a vasectomy because you may never be ok with having kids.
 
Dude your shit is outta control, you need to chill , it's not that easy to get pregs and even if that .0001% chance happened you think this girl is going to want to have a baby with your neurotic larry david genes.
It takes two to make a child but a woman is the one who has to carry the thing and most likely do the raising, I think you're being a bit selfish homey and you should put your own fears aside and think about the extra stress and worry you're putting on this girl.
Most guys go through a few pregnancy scares with their partners you're supposed to keep your shit together accept responsibility and be supportive.
 
ABL23 said:
I don't expect anyone to say much else on the situation. Everyone had been incredibly kind, optimistic and encourage. Which I'm grateful for, I'm scheduling an appointment with my doctor tomorrow about this horrible anxiety because I'm nearly at my breaking point with this. So I can update everyone on that later on.
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I *really* hope this helps out <3
 
ABL23 said:
Lol in the back of my mind I have been reluctant to trust the test.
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irrational thought processes:\

tomdpimp said:
Get a vasectomy because you may never be ok with having kids.
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op is young- what kind of crap advice is this? he's just got a tendency to ruminate on tings and find a problem to obsess over. thats no justification for making himself infertile. ridiculous suggestion.
 
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