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Porn make you lazy to find real mate?

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Markomarkh

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I was thinking does net porn make you lazy to go out and find a real sex mate, because net porn is easy and safe and satisfies you in some ways and you get no nagging from it?
 
The problem with having a porn-only sex life is that you might not be able to "rise to the occasion" when the time comes with a real woman. Real sex is very different, you get hard by passionate kissing and touching, you can do that with your eyes closed. You need more and more and more porn to get hard and stay hard while you wank. I love porn and wanking but I would strongly caution you against over indulgence and to diversify with real women. And whatever you do when you actually get in the bedroom with a partner - don't think you're in a porno. Most of the positions they show are very painful for women and awkward for men, designed to maximize the view for the camera. The penis sizes and body shapes are ridiculously out of whack with what real people look like. If you've been masterbating for years and years then you will have a hard time climaxing because you just won't get the tightness you need, it'll feel loose to you but the reason it does is because you've desensitized your penis. Remember when you were a young lad merely touching it would feel incredible but not so much now.
 
beekr said:
Remember when you were a young lad merely touching it would feel incredible but not so much now.
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So all of these years of jacking off is my problem? I always thought that was an age thing lol. Either way, what I wouldn't give for it to feel like when I was 15. Too bad when people are at their sexual peak is at the time everything else in their life is unstable. I think it's a conspiracy honestly. =D
 
I don't think anything compares to sex with someone that you actually love. Very different than porn.
 
i think porn is unhealthy and unnatural, namely hardcore porn. it's a very recent phenomenon to jack off to other dudes fucking as far as i know. personally i'll fuck with softcore shit but ya excessive porn and masturbation i feel are a detriment to a healthy sex life.
 
I've never personally been a fan of much "hardcore" porn. Just seems demeaning and fake to me. Now I hardly watch porn anyways but what I do like is either female solo or male and female once in a while that's not over the top and degrading.
 
For the most part if you take 3 days to a week off, your "batteries" should be pretty much recharged.
 
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