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Pigment Spots on Penis

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I've been anxious about this for a while. I'm in my mid-20s, good looking, but when I was about 17-18, I developed some dark-brown pigment marks on my penis. These aren't bumps, they are just spots of coloration. I also have these same exact marks on other parts of my body (seems to be common with light-skinned people). I've already been to a urologist, who confirmed that it's nothing other than natural pigment marks, so I'm not worried about them being harmful. There's nothing that can be done about it either that I know of.

However, I've been pretty self-conscious about it. I'm also uncircumcised, which is already uncommon and stigmatized so it doesn't help. There are 2-3 other spots lower on my penis that aren't that visible, but the main one that bothers me is a really obvious one right next to my urethra (at the very tip). It's the exact size of the letter 'o' as it appears on the screen. I'm worried about whether women might think that it's an STD. And even if they don't think it's an STD, I'm still just worried about the appearance of it because it's definitely not attractive IMO.

Penis shape and size are average, but I can't help but be self-conscious about the brown spots. Because of this, I avoid blowjobs when the opportunity arises if the room is not dark enough, which I'm not happy with but I'm worried about the woman's reaction. I'd like some opinions from women on how often they see these and what their reaction/impression is. Be honest, I'm already avoiding head so there's nothing to be gained from lying to be polite.
 
I've never seen it but I don't think I would mind that much. I suppose if it does look like it may be an STD that would obviously be a rather big concern, but if not, meh...it's just a spot, no big deal really. It's likely you're over-playing it in your head a lot. Honestly if I were you I would try to forget about it once, go along with whatever's happening, and just see how she reacts. Chances are she won't at all :)
 
Its the exact size of the letter "o" as it appears?

Pagey is spot on right, you are way over thinking things.............FFS get out there and get head.

sheesh, I have freckles on my dick and in fact I suspect its bloody common as hell.

Give yourself an uppercut for all the head you have missed out on silly billy.
 
As a female also I would say it wouldn't bother or worry me. I would assume it is what it is. As long as it doesn't look like a sore and is smooth like you say so that it doesn't appear to be a wart then no worries. I promise if I felt different I would say but it would not bother me. I only think you should ne worried if it were really raised or something (then, like I said someone might mistake it for a genital wart, so you are good!

I also agree that most likely someone is not likely to notice. I guarantee you worrying about it is way out of proportion to reality of someone actually seeing it and then if they did see it, thinking anything of it.

Please relax and don't worry at all. I had something unusual that I used to worry about a few years ago and then once I had been with a guy for awhile I would bring it up (cause finally was a lil more comfortable and always wondered what they thought) and everytime they had not even noticed until I said something. And it was probably a little more noticeable than what you are talking about ! ;)

P.S. the only thing that they might actually be wondering about is why a guy is refusing a BJ!
 
That's no big deal, my fella has a birth mark on his little fella which he always likes to show me like I've never seen it before ;)

Everyone here is right, its more in your head, we all get hung up on these little imperfections but that's what makes us unique!

I always find if I'm upfront about any issues at the start then it can be a lot easier than waiting for someone to notice.
 
this guy my friend used to date had a birthmark on the middle of his cock.

he said it meant he was born to fuck.

the problem is your attitude and how you feel. only you can change how you feel about things
 
Don't worry about it, I've had the same dark pigmentation since I was 15 and now I'm nearly 40. All the girls I've slept with have always found it fascinating and I tell them it's my cock wanting to be black :D.
I did have them checked out and the doc told me not to worry about it.
The marks on my dick are on the skin just under the head on the right hang side and I am circumcised.
 
I got a few freckles on my cock as well. Try not to sweat it, if anything it makes it more unique (try looking at it like that lol).
 
pofacedhoe said:
this guy my friend used to date had a birthmark on the middle of his cock.

he said it meant he was born to fuck.

the problem is your attitude and how you feel. only you can change how you feel about things
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badandwicked said:
Also congratulations on not being circumcised.

Be smug about the amazing sensitivity you can enjoy that's been sadly lost to your peers.
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this.

im a female and dont find anything about what youve mentioned offputting.

i hope you can get past this unnecessary stigma and enjoy oral sex again.

...kytnism...:|
 
It they don't say anything, don't mention it. If they do, explain the situation, and thats its not an STD or anything wierd. Don't let it hold back your confidence from being with women, as the other posters said as well. Its nothing to worry about.
 
yeah i too have two spots on my glans, which are just a bit darker than the skin around it. i have asked a doctor about it and she told me, if it was like that for years and doesn't get bigger, it's nothing to worry about :)
 
Re: Pigment Spots on Penis (SLR)

http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/677605-Pigment-Spots-on-Penis

Yeah, I'm probably over-thinking it a little, but I had a negative experience that triggered this anxiety. When I was a teenager, my first sexual experience was with a girl that was really enthusiastic about wanting to give me head, but as soon as she actually started doing it it was obvious her enthusiasm faded. She kept making excuses to stop, like her throat/mouth being sore (I'm only average so that was BS).

It was pretty obvious to me that she was uncomfortable with foreskin. Then, in addition to this, hearing females make fun of foreskin whenever the topic came up added to the stigma. I personally like my foreskin, because it allows me to have amazing orgasms, but in the USA it is very taboo.

So when the spots developed it was just icing on the cake, a continuation of that insecurity. Right now, there's a girl that really wants to give me head specifically (she's constantly trying hard to seduce me into it). I've actually known her for a long time, so it's a delicate issue in my mind. I just don't want that experience to be as awkward as my first one because I'd like to keep her as a friend. I'm not a dominating type. It's very important for me that the woman is enjoying herself, and it's very awkward and hard for me to get off if she's not so that's why it's an issue for me personally.

Anyway, for your entertainment that's the reason why I was overthinking things. I'm pretty sure she's had experience with foreskin so I'm not too worried about that. About the spots, she has some freckles too on her face, so after thinking objectively about it I guess she'd probably be understanding about it. I'll probably go for it.
 
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