REGARDLESS of the reason, there is no god-given right to freak out at everyone in the airport because you're going to miss your flight.
I think you're *mostly* alone in the paying $5. What's the difference between standing in an annoying line with your so to get their boarding ticket then give them the same hug and kiss you'd give at the drop off section?
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I'm not freaking out at everyone in the airport - only those who knowingly are acting in ways that could cause other people to miss flights (and it's not just the drop-off area, but also like families that take a good two minutes between the time between when the attendent has passed out all of the boarding passes and they get out of the way, so the next person in line can advance). Furthermore, patrons I mean - airport employees are a whole separate set of peeves.
The difference is that in the former situation, your car is not parked in the drop-off section, precluding your contribution to a potential backup, which could screw someone over.
One another thing, if one is taking a taxicab to the airport (which I often do, as I am either not in a place with my car or the taxi is cheaper than extended airport parking), even if there is enough time so as to not miss the flight, the taxi fare becomes higher if there is a delay at the drop-off area (assuming the taxi fare is guided by time and distance, which 99% of times you use overseas). So I could say that just as you wouldn't want to drop $5 on having to park, I don't want to have a $5 higher taxi fare because of people being unrealistically leisurely.
I guess my SO and I don't make a big deal out of saying goodbye at flights. They're usually short visits. I guess if I were flying to Japan for 6 months he'd come in with me. Hell, he probably comes in with me half the time anyway. I just think it's fine for people to have the option to get out of their cars to hug their SO at the airport and not face the nightmare of parking.
Fair enough, and to an extent this is one of those areas where I should write a letter to airports suggesting some type of express and casual split in the drop-off area. But I'm more talking about the people that do take FOREVER in the drop-off area. And kissing/saying bye to a SO could be a small part of it.
Stopping for a quick smootch doesn't 99% of the time preclude people from making their flight from all my experience traveling. I'm pretty sure if you're flying international you should expect the WORST. Clearly you don't have the luxury of knowing what to expect/what kind of delay we might be talking about. MOST of us are not flying out of Bangkok on the regular so this is really a non-issue (as I've said 300x) for the majority of travelers/flyers. I'm putting out my experience which is obviously solely American/European traveling so all my opinions are based off that. However, I think the majority of the posters flying are experiencing Westernized airports anyway. Bangkok? Seriously? I would put an entire day's efforts to get to the airport there. Pretty sure the 'stop and smooch' section is never going to be the same as stupid Kansas. You're putting one crazy-ass airport in with the typical experience which is impossible.
Most of us are not flying out of Bangkok, true. But you said yourself that you live near one of the busiest airports in the world, so I'd imagine you get a fair amount of foreigners using this airport. And they would probably be using taxis or private drivers to get to the airport, and they will need access to the drop-off area.
edit: Your ex, if it's the same person, sounds like a wench.
A hypothetical wench, yes

Just like a lot of these people in my pet peeve conversations.