So my girl asked me if I wanted to go to Hawaii with her in the next few months... her mom lives there and she hasn't seen her in like 3 years. I've wanted to go to Hawaii for a long, long time... it's one of the number one places I want to see and spend time in. I looked into it and she has ideas to make it more affordable... I think it's totally worth it and it will be awesome to hang out on the beach and explore rainforests and volcanoes. I'm really excited.

We'll probably go for 2 weeks and I'll take one of those weeks off of work and work from there the other week, I don't want to use up 2/3 of my vacation time on one trip.
Also... I realized that I am in love with this girl. It really crept up on me... she's just fucking awesome. Really, really cool and nice and caring and chill person, she's always a pleasure to be around, she's super level-headed and mature, just honestly a really good catch. And none of that codependence stuff at all, she's totally her own person and doesn't try to barge in on my life or control me at all, she's allowed me to let her in at my own pace and I never feel like we spend too much time together, I still have my own entirely separate life and she hers, and I think we both really want it to be that way.
I'm not gonna tell her now, I'll keep it to myself for a while. But it was cool to realize.

I didn't mean to have that happen but I can't help it... and also she really doesn't seem to be the slightest anchor or burden on my life at all, which is why I didn't want to get too close to someone in the first place.
Sounds like him.

Dude talks about sex more than anyone I know.