Funny story about OK Cupid.
I met a woman, IRL, who I really connected with, but she had a boyfriend, though there was serious connection between us mutually. We spent time together from time to time but it was too fucked up a situation to continue, long story, but it's irrelevant really. I was way into her but it became clear she wasn't going to leave him for me. Feels. So anyway, I go to OKCupid to "rebound," I answer a shitton of questions, and who should emerge as the first, something like 99% match? The same woman. Now, why the hell she was on there in the first place, being that she had a boyfriend, is a good question, and the answer is probably the same as to why she'd go to dinner, etc. with me, and yet not break it off with him, but I thought that was really something.
She was a bluelighter, too. (edit to add: yes, at that point my life, I was meeting bluelighters IRL, and I don't mean through bluelight. what that says for my social circle at the time, draw your own conclusions.)
I wonder how she's doing, and if she's still with her boyfriend, who as a gaping asshole BTW. (edit to add: a quick bluelight stalking expedition confirms that she is no longer. this makes me feel happy for her. And apparently she's still posting epic polydrug trip reports. More power to her. (Edit to add: are you reading this? More power to you. Looks like you still are doing a lot of drugs. That's cool I guess. I mostly stick to hard liqour these days. I'll drop you a line, I think. Hope you're well.))
Memories.
If nothing else, this episode gave me some faith in OKCupid's matching algorithim, because fuck me, I really liked this chick.
(edit to add: no, it's not who you probably think it is.)
(edit to add again: I've been romantically entangled with more than one bluelighter? (edit to add: more than two I think 3?) what the fuck does that say about me? lol)
(Edit to add yet again: so, which is the better dating site, blue light or OK cupid? )