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she cheated, yes, but the timelines seem to point to it being me.

along with that, she isn't like that. its a lot more complicated than "her using me".
she never wanted to hurt me nor did she intend for this bs to happen.
also, she is wanting a termination if she is pregnant. so its definitely not about her "trapping" me etc.

like SKL said, i have a lot to think about, and talk about with her tomorrow...
i appreciate all the advice you guys have given over the past few months. :)
 
That's some intense stuff right there, best of luck sega


And happy bday cloudy


And happy day everyone else.
 
Sega420 said:
she cheated, yes, but the timelines seem to point to it being me.

along with that, she isn't like that. its a lot more complicated than "her using me".
she never wanted to hurt me nor did she intend for this bs to happen.
also, she is wanting a termination if she is pregnant. so its definitely not about her "trapping" me etc.

like SKL said, i have a lot to think about, and talk about with her tomorrow...
i appreciate all the advice you guys have given over the past few months. :)
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i didnt mean to imply she was trapping you.
Even if you were the only guy she slept with in the last 10 years. What you must take into consideration is the child and what is best for its well being.
And realize that having a child will change your life more than you might expect.

Right now you are the most important thing. You live for yourself.
Itll be quite an adjustment to lose yourself and live your life for the well being of another.

And once again i dont know your situation entirely. If you are in a position to support you child and the baby mama and are willing to do so, then go for it.
But if this is just some animal instinct to plant your seed, then think twice, you will be changing many lives with your decision.
 
oh, believe me, i am considering this.
i am nowhere near a final decision, but at the end of the day it is all down to what she decides.

all i can do is talk it over with her and support her choice.

its been an intense 5 months.
what's new with everyone else? not been around properly in a looooong time..
 
Being addicted to street drugs is way too difficult; if I could order certain unmentionables to my home like my beloved RCs there might be a problem but thankfully that is not the case.

been a minute pd. hello
 
Sega, I've never been in your shoes exactly, though I once feared that I was, but I sympathize with your dilemma and feel it's subtlety and difficulty. I am not surprised that you reached the conclusions that you did while tripping on a drug which more than anything else affirms the inter-connectedness of consciousness and of LIFE. I am decidedly pro-life and have been for many years, it is a no-brainer for me, the only question that I think is relevant in the whole debate relates to whether life begins at concept, or at some other point. That having been said from a "harm reduction"/utilitarian context I can see arguments from the other side but it does nothing to stem my revulsion with the idea, and I think that this is something that you have to listen to, first, see Leon Kaas's idea of the "wisdom of repugnance," second, remind yourself that it is a choice which will stick with you throughout life, either choice that you make. At this point there is really no easy way to flip a switch and make this all go away. But we as human beings were, indeed, built to pass on our genes, and protect our offspring, so that's something to keep in mind too.
 
Let us toast to animal pleasures, to escapism, to rain on the roof and instant coffee, to unemployment insurance and library cards, to absinthe and good-hearted landlords, to music and warm bodies and contraceptives... and to the "good life", whatever it is and wherever it happens to be. -HST


<3 Im a girl too... girls dig psychedelics, just sometimes from a distance.
 
Sega, my brother was in a similar situation a few years back. In the end, she decided to keep it, and he agreed, but now she pretty much wants nothing to do with him. It's kind of a sad situation...I hope things can work out a lot better for you.
 
*Love*Lite* said:
Let us toast to animal pleasures, to escapism, to rain on the roof and instant coffee, to unemployment insurance and library cards, to absinthe and good-hearted landlords, to music and warm bodies and contraceptives... and to the "good life", whatever it is and wherever it happens to be. -HST
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That's a really awesome quote. :D
 
Ahhhh! All these new JWH's. I'm having a hard time choosing between JWH-019, JWH-081, JWH-122 and JWH-250. Unfortunately -018 and -073 are banned in my state :|
 
73 is the bee's knees, man. And since when do druggies care what is and is not banned? :)
 
I thought -073 was pretty good myself, a very enjoyable stone! I'm looking for a nice potent one with good mileage like -18 though.

I agree with you, I could really give a shit less if it's banned. :) Problem is every vendor I've contacted is scared to ship it to my state. It's silly, I could get 2C-T-7 and other similar goodies.
 
Yeah, my favourite song on my favourite album by them. Today is the first time I've listened to them in months, no idea why, I tend to neglect a lot of the music in my library as I go from group to group that I happen to overplay for a week-month/s haha
 
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