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Opiates and Sexual Drive

Well speaking from a womans viewpoint. I had a very very high sex drive and loved all kinds of sexual positions explorations toys partners etc. It didbt take much to rev my engine up.

But. Way on farther down the line with the years long addiction to opiates it completely went downhill. Even if my partner got my interest long enoungh to get me naked. More oft then not I t quickly ended up going nowhere fast. In fact it became more like an exercise in allowing him to jack off in me rather then anythening pleasurable. Sorry for the bluntness for me it just became futile. Just my experience
 
. Thank you all so much for your feedback.
Hmm interesting; seems opiates raises the libido in woman and totally kills it in men. When I asked all my girlfriends they said sex is better on opies. To Gong , I certainly do have 160mg habit ( I wish I didn’t ) The reason I am not preoccupied with scoring everyday is because I only have 1 person I deal with that has a script for them and only takes 80 mg’s a day and with my outstanding pill credit she leaves the rest for me. We have become quite good friends and it’s gonna suck when I give up these oxy’s .
 
in real WD i have no sex drive n even if i gave it a wank it doesnt last long

when tapering i still dont last long but i atleast have to the 'want to' to have sex

it takes awhile for me to get my longevity back w/o opes



funny i saw this thread cuz anyone reading this might be interested in this story

a new girl just started workin with me about 2 weeks ago. initially, one day, it was me her n another girl workin, just the 3 of us, n the new girl propossed that it'd be fun if sumtime the 2 of us got together for a 3some, initially everyone was down but then the other girl (not new girl) was like, " I would but i have a b/f n im not a cheater"

this was like a week n 1/2 ago, but over the last 5 days i have been tapering off opiates, anyways, other girl or not she has still been aggressive n eventually just decided it'd be me n her, i told her i was down n for her to hit me up, but that was before i had any intention of tapering (i kinda woke up one morning n was like, i gotta do this shit)

anyways i didnt know what to do, do i either 1, not have sex with her, not tell her whats up n then just try n blow her off 2. go n cop a lil, n then be STONG LIKE BULL 3 or be honest with her, n keep the taper goin

i ended up just bein honest n sayin hey, im an addict.

her reply to that was an almost immediate "i know"**

*puzzled look on my face*

"and im trying to get clean, so right now i really have no libido, i'd love to comeover when i get off tonight but i just wanna let u know ahead of time i wont last 30 seconds"

her: "ok, kool, call me when u get off work"

everything ended up goin well, i mean i was still only able to last a minute or so at a time but i was able to get her to climax,( granted it was a 1:4 ratio of her to my orgasms ;) )

**this really bothered me, n made me think, after she said this i had to call her up n be like "what do you mean, you know"?

n she basically was like, i have been around lots n lots of addicts, your constant mood swings, always sweating, frequent bathroom breaks n when we're busy as shit at work, oh and your pupils most of the time"

i was like holy fuckin shit, this girl just pegged me down perfect n her i am all along thinking im one of the incognito junkies, but i think she is just good at spottin a user cuz i'd like to think i do a good job of leadin a double life

EDIT: ahhh, god damnit, that came out really long, i knew it would, no one's gonna read it now, :\
 
The only thing opiates did (morphine and dilaudid mostly) was make me last alot longer since it was damn near impossible to get off on high doses. I could go for hours which was really fun actually :) . The only opiates that dampen my sex drive are tramadol and demerol. Both of which i rarely use since they suck.
 
High on life,
It's cool that you still kept tapering. I feel I can't have sex unless Im high and Im a girl. I guess there is so much more pressure on men to perform. I would have deff grab something for the night. Where do you work? sounds like fun [giggle] .
 
I find orgasm on opiates to be amazing.. the problem is being able to orgasm.. one nigh I beat myself stupid for 2 hours, could not get off.. the next morning my member was swolen..not raw, just puffed up... it looked a good 10% fatter & 5% longer.. so if you gotta have a dick sizing contest maybe this will make the difference :P

I usually dont bother wasting my time, I find the furious work of trying to get off retracts from the high and the chance of me actually getting off while still high is very low... tend to wait until most of the feeling has faded, then go when I can get myself to cum in ~ 15mins, then do it.. so you're still high a bit, and you get the orgasm.
 
^^^^ Yeah i shagged my girl until i basically collapsed a few times trying to get off after a big shot of morphine. It was fun but it can be abit frustrating not being able to get off unless you feel like youve done the equivelant of a marathon.

Im just thankful im not one of those guys that can't get it up on opiates. Christ that would really suck and im pretty sure id quit the stuff if that happened. Granted on alcohol i couldnt get it up even after a few drinks and that never stopped me from drinking.
 
opiated sex tends to finish with my girl being worn out...so I have to finish the job myself while she assists, and then a half hour+ later I'm apologizing...either because I couldn't finish or because it took me so damn long. otherwise its incredible.
 
I was at my friends house other night, and her boyfriend was hooked on opiates for few years - obviously during that period , it would take hours for him to nut. I was tellin her how I obviously had the same prob, but now even it's fucked up - and she said she has had quite a few guys mention that after prolonged opiate use they take FOREVER to get off. And that they are less sensitive.

Dunno about you guys but it's legit a real problem for me, it's nothin to brag about when u can't fuckin cum period, it fuckin sucks.
 
To me, Morphine and especially Heroin were way superior to sex when I was using them, so much so that I passed up a couple opportunities to sleep with a couple women I had long been attracted to during that time and all I could think about each time was getting home to my opiates. Sad but true. Sitting at a bar with a beautiful woman who you've been into for awhile who wants to go home and sleep with you and saying fuck it I'd rather go home and get high alone.

Actually more like sitting at the bar with a beautiful woman not even drinking your beer and spending the whole time trying to figure how to get out of there without offending your date so you can get home to your stash.

Maybe if I had a girlfriend who used at the time things would have been different.

That's the problem with heavy opiates, everything else becomes second best, the whole world pales in comparison to the sweet bliss of a good dose of H or M or whatever your favorite is.
 
The only thing opiates did (morphine and dilaudid mostly) was make me last alot longer since it was damn near impossible to get off on high doses. I could go for hours which was really fun actually :) . The only opiates that dampen my sex drive are tramadol and demerol. Both of which i rarely use since they suck.

Haha. That's how my husband is... so it's kind of fun in a way. If I just use a regular dose, I pretty much have no sex drive but if I abuse...... it's crazy. I guess not feeling pain really helps for me and I pretty much do anything my husband wants.
 
i love having sex on h. can go for hours on end and it gives u time to do some amazing shit in bed! girls like it to when you can fuck em like they never have been before and actualy get them off
 
hahaha this is a great topic!

Last week my ex-gf called me up and wanted to have sex. I haven't seen her in a few months and we broke up almost 2 years ago. I was so high on H, I drove over to see her, and she just jumped on me. I guess my lack of interest in sex turned her on more, she ripped my clothes off. I crawled under her covers and nodded off.

She got really upset, and begged me to have sex with her. I told her I was high on heroin and had a girlfriend, thinking this would turn her off. She literally pushed me out of her bed and on to the floor. I stood up and started walking out her bedroom where she asked me if a quickie was okay. I laughed, smiled and went to pick up more H, and then went to see my hooker girlfriend.

The irony though was she caught me having sex with another girl when we were dating, and she was so heartbroken this and that, and now she wants another girl to feel that way for 15 minutes of pleasure...

However my favorite past time while on opiates was to go to myredbook, and find a girl who offered a rub n tug. I probably saw 15 girls while high, and only 2 where able to get me off.

1 was with a milf, and the situation was so fucked up, her 16 old daughter was in the living room doing her homework with a friend while her mom was blowing me in the other room begging me to cum

and the other time was with massage therapist who looked like a freakin supermodel and stuck her finger in my butt.


So the rush was great every experience, but sober is okay too. Give your body time to go back to normal and sex will feel like it was intended to feel!
 
1 was with a milf, and the situation was so fucked up, her 16 old daughter was in the living room doing her homework with a friend while her mom was blowing me in the other room begging me to cum

Damn, that is a hot situation if you ask me.. smokin hot
 
kinda weird u all ever here the saying im up in it like dope dick ,give a bitch the dope dick? well i love my dope dick this mo fookahh stand at attention as soon as i think about it but only after that needle was in ? (*siiiighhh*)
 
Its like I know that aspect of myself has died and I'm happy about it or something. But having a sexdrive for me really just equals a whole bunch of bs anxiety that I'd rather not deal with. Instead of wasting all my time chasing women around and trying to validate my fragile male ego I can focus on my career and make some money... or focus on things other than women.

Its it wrong to be ok with it? Maybe thats the real question.
Im the same exact way, going on dates, meeting girls, etc just brought on anxiety for me.. Right now I really do found it a waste of time to chase women, especially since neither they or I have intention of getting married,for me it's like why waste all that time to try to score sex,thats what most guys my age are doing, there just trying to score, they have to no intention of relationship..

I am also focusing all my time on making money.. and once I have reached that level of success, girls would be chasing me.. and one that is good I would marry her.
 
I have been on methadone for the last 3 years of the dozen I have been abusing opies. I have a wonderful wife who is about to give birth to my first boy.

But my sex drive is nil, I can sometimes go for days, other times he won't cooperate, I hardly ever cum.

Also I have been getting physically weaker over the past 6 months, I feel generally crappy and lethargic, I can't seem to concentrate or remember anything. My wife constantly gets on me saying I don't listen to her but I am trying to, I just seem to be missing half of what she says even though I try.

I don't feel right at all lately. Has anyone ever tried testosterone therapy? Could that be my problem? I am only 28!
 
At first, with very small amounts of heroin, I wouldnt say H increased my sex drive, in fact it pretty much remained the same. But the sex was AWESOME!!! like every movement was orgasmic. As i moved on to higher doses........wah wah wah......my sex drive took a nose dive. I still had interest in sex, but I was toooo high, and my body refused to cooperate with my mind!

I have been on methadone for the last 3 years of the dozen I have been abusing opies. I have a wonderful wife who is about to give birth to my first boy.

But my sex drive is nil, I can sometimes go for days, other times he won't cooperate, I hardly ever cum.

Also I have been getting physically weaker over the past 6 months, I feel generally crappy and lethargic, I can't seem to concentrate or remember anything. My wife constantly gets on me saying I don't listen to her but I am trying to, I just seem to be missing half of what she says even though I try.

I don't feel right at all lately. Has anyone ever tried testosterone therapy? Could that be my problem? I am only 28!

I tried therapy, and when I was sober, I could get hard as a rock, but cum quick..so it works to an extent.. if your too high, and blood pressure is too low, its gonna be pretty hard.. I noticed that trying to have sex when i should be nodding out sucks, cuz i cant concentrate on what the hell im doing
 
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