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Mugz said:
maybe thats what ruined it, my demanding to buy the drinks!!
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Or maybe it wasn't your fault at all and she's unrealistically looking for 'Mr Perfect'. You can't live up to those expectations, no one can. Actually thinking about some of those shocking texts you sent maybe it was your fault. :p

Still reckon her male mate would have cockblocked and bad mouthed you as soon as you left though. Go to the pub and knock him out Mugz. ;)
 
I agree with PT, it makes some people feel bad if you buy all the drinks too. Even if I'm flush and my mates are near enough skint, I won't turn down the odd round. I might buy extra rounds of shots or whatever if I'm feeling generous.

But I'm happy enough to pay for all the drinks if someone is really stony broke.

All of this applies with the lady in your life too.


For some reason, though, if I have loads of drugs, I'll put them down your neck for free whether you like it or not.
 
parttime crackhead said:
Ha, aye no danger mate. I would still do it though. I'm not talking about a 12 hour bender in the pub, spending £200 or some shit, I'm talking a few drinks. It hardly breaks the bank. Saying that, I would be a bit pissed off if the bird was clearly expecting me to pay for everything & didn't even attempt to pay for shit. Also, if it's my money it's my choice. So if she wants to go somewhere shite she's getting telt no chance & if I want to go somewhere then that's where we're going if I'm the dafty paying for it.
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If it hardly breaks your bank it'll hardly break hers when she's got to buy just half the amount of drinks. I just don't see any logic in the guy paying for everything on dates, it's not gentlemanly or the right thing to do, it's just old fashioned bullshit that needs to be stamped out as too many birds just use it for a free night out then tell you to fuck off afterwards anyway as we saw here. Wouldn't be so bad the guy going old skool and buying the drinks if the bird was oldskool too, i.e. feminine, sweet, well mannered but they aren't these days. Half them look like men with tits, dress bad, drink pints, act masculine, swear and they turn up at dates with their mates and other guys. An old skool gentleman would get that bitch telt and give her a backhander then rough up the other guy that showed up. ;)
 
I'd have bought the drinks, it's not like she's taking the piss. If she didn't offer to buy any though alarm bells would be ringing. Can see where your coming from though Spade, that stuff harks back to when men were the bread winners, and women didn't work.

There does come a point were they've gotta pay though, if you'd have gone to bowling I'd have expected her to pay for herself there.
 
Buying drinks isn't actually a problem if you have money tbh. The problem is guys do it because they think they need to impress the bird by picking up the tab but like the birds actually impressed by someone buying a few beers, more likely to be thinking he's a mug and rubbing her hands together with glee that she's not got to spend any cash. I don't think it's a good first impression as it's likely to continue and happen next time you meet, if you get that far. You do it the first time she might expect you to do it every time.
 
TheSpade said:
Gentlemanly, LOL. Look where doing that got you. I don't buy birds drinks, why should I? If they can't afford to go to the pub they shouldn't have come out. Equal world and all that.
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I got fucking lucky on that side, girl I've been going around with hates it when I pay for stuff :D I don't mind doing it, she's always skinto and I enjoy her company but it bugs her summat rotten.

Anyways get back out there Mugz, obviously the initial contact went well and it's not your fault her mates turned up and everything went a bit pear shaped so keep on with it
 
^ I always wondered how that worked with you lezbos ;)

Like, neither of you buy drinks. Just sit there all night waiting on the other one going in her pocket haha.

Knock - I agree with regards to my mates. I'd happily pay for them all night if I was the one with the cash, swings & roundabouts, there's times when I've got no dough & get a free night on the booze coz one of my mates is flush. In the same vein though I wouldn't tell my mate to put his money away if I knew he was skint & he was offering to get a round in, that would feel like a bit of a cunty move.

Dan's right with the bird thing. I'd be happy to pay but not if she was just sitting there expecting me to pay for everything & if she went to get a round in I wouldn't stop her. To be fair, whenever this has come up I normally end up paying for the drinks because I'm the one getting up to go the bar due to finishing my booze first.
 
I used to go out with a Turkish pornstar when I was living in Turkey, lol, true fuckin story, still got the warts to prove it...

Anyway, she always bought all my drinks, took me out for meals, got me taxis everywhere, paid for hotels for weekends for us, and err, the sex, well FUCK YEAH!! %)

Was all good, I didn't realise the score for the first 3 weeks or so, kind of thought I'd just stumbled into the most amazing girl a 26 year old bloke could meet...then I realised something wasn't quite right (but chose to ignore my nagging doubts, lol, as you would in my position), kept the relationship up for about 2 months in total, got her to pay for my airfare home and told her I was coming back to UK for a week or two to see my family, and just never went back....I'd realised she was just after a marriage and a passport, so didn't feel so duplicitous...

Was fucking good while it lasted.

I've been out with a few Turkish girls, but never one like her :D

fuckin warts though eh? :(
 
Maybe with lesbians the most butch one assumes the role of the man and sticks her hand in the pocket.
 
Could be, my wife rarely gets them, she gets the odd tiny one, but my system maybe jst more susceptible to them.

We both know we carry the virus, whatever it is, so don't worry about it, some of mine are fuckin huge, on me upper thighs etc, nasty shit....wife just gets the odd tiny one now and then, but she gets them treated immediately......

lol, sorry to derail your thread in such a distasteful manner.
 
Mailmonkey said:
Could be, my wife rarely gets them, she gets the odd tiny one, but my system maybe jst more susceptible to them.

We both know we carry the virus, whatever it is, so don't worry about it, some of mine are fuckin huge, on me upper thighs etc, nasty shit....wife just gets the odd tiny one now and then, but she gets them treated immediately......

lol, sorry to derail your thread in such a distasteful manner.
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Wow looking it up 10-20% of adults in the US have HPV?! WTF lol.
 
Mailmonkey said:
I used to go out with a Turkish pornstar when I was living in Turkey, lol, true fuckin story, still got the warts to prove it...

Anyway, she always bought all my drinks, took me out for meals, got me taxis everywhere, paid for hotels for weekends for us, and err, the sex, well FUCK YEAH!! %)

Was all good, I didn't realise the score for the first 3 weeks or so, kind of thought I'd just stumbled into the most amazing girl a 26 year old bloke could meet...then I realised something wasn't quite right (but chose to ignore my nagging doubts, lol, as you would in my position), kept the relationship up for about 2 months in total, got her to pay for my airfare home and told her I was coming back to UK for a week or two to see my family, and just never went back....I'd realised she was just after a marriage and a passport, so didn't feel so duplicitous...

Was fucking good while it lasted.

I've been out with a few Turkish girls, but never one like her :D

fuckin warts though eh? :(
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Aside from the warts, that's a brilliant story. :D

Who cares if she wanted a passport, I would have strung her along and milked it for all it was worth for a while longer I reckon. Not many people can say they've shagged a porn star.
 
its a common enough virus, easily passed about. You don't have to have visible warts to pass it on. And once you're a carrier, you're a carrier. I'm surprised it's as low as 10-20% tbh.
 
parttime crackhead said:
^ I always wondered how that worked with you lezbos ;)

Like, neither of you buy drinks. Just sit there all night waiting on the other one going in her pocket haha.
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Haha aye, I always get asked how it works out! If you're both indecisive it pretty much ends up like you said

Mates-wise it's defo different. One of my best mates is down here in sunny Hull with me and I see him a lot. When we were back at home I was skint and he was paying for us to go out and now we're here I'm paying for us both most the time and he's like 'ahhh I'll get some beers in when I get paid' but I know the boy's in debt and I don't mind doing it cos I know in the near future I'll be broke again and he'll be rolling in it and we'll just keep going like that. He rolled up the other week with four Stella and a ten bag and I appreciated that more than if he'd sauntered in with a 24 pack and all the drugs ever <3

edit: oh we're onto genital warts now! nothing to offer there, I'm afraid :D
 
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