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one of my boobs is BIGGER than the other!

blue waffle

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so ones a b and ones a c. its kinda annoying cus i have to wear padding on one side and then when a guy takes off my bra hes like wtf! cus they look even until my shirts off.. i cant afford surgery and its making me so self concsious. idk how to deal with it. is there some kind of hormone i can take to fix it?? it hurts my feelings cus last time i went to hook up with this dude he actually left cus of my weird boobs :(
 
First of all, most, if not all women, have asymmetrical or uneven breasts in varying degrees - your problem is more common than you realise. Just like most people's feet are different sizes, or hands even. Every time I get fitted for shoes in a store they tell me one of my feet is a half size bigger than the other - I was really surprised the first time I was told this because I didn't realise.

The only way of correcting asymmetrical breasts is by surgery. I'm not sure where you live or what your health system is like but I think it's worth seeing a doctor to put your mind at ease and discuss your options.

With regard to the guys walking out or making you feel bad - firstly, they sound really young and immature and not worth feeling bad over. Secondly, I don't want to tell you how to live your life, but with a regular boyfriend who cares about you, I can tell you things would be different. People who care about each other shouldn't make each other feel bad about their appearance, whereas more casual hookups are far more shallow about their feelings.
 
but its like no guy is interested in beeing with me becuase of my uneven boobs. i had a bf for a while, but he left me for some big chested chick. that really dented my confidence, because i used to always feel like i never had to worry since this guy appreciated me for who i am. guess not....
breast surgery is expensive. i could talk to a doc but he wouldnt be able to help me financially, even if i bought him dinner im sure.
 
Guys actually say wtf? I don't believe that. If it's true, there are lots of guys who are less shallow. I was with a girl who had a spliced nipple or something (it was like two little nipples where there should have been one)... It seriously did not phase me in the slightest. I still lusted for her like crazy. Maybe more shallow guys might have a problem with stuff like this, but eh, who cares about them?
 
guess im just interested in the wrong guys then :( its only rly been an issue to me since my ex left me for that hoebag. maybe i shud find a guy willing to pay for boob surgery.
is there any hormone that could help me? like would birth control even me out?
 
I know you can't afford the surgery - but a doctor might be able to counsel you, make you feel a bit less self-conscious; they might give you options for down the track when you can afford it or get older. I know when I talk to my doctor about feeling depressed or anxious which I've felt since I was young, I feel better just talking to them, like a huge load's been lifted from me.

Everyone has self-conscious feelings about their body and it's flaws - the human body is never perfect despite what we're constantly exposed to online, TV and movies. I don't want to sound patronising either but it gets easier as you get older, I know that doesn't help you right now though.

And yeah, I meant being with the right guy. People can be shallow and stupid about things but not everyone is like this. There are good guys out there who will like you for you and think you're beautiful.

I do feel you need to discuss this with a doctor or health professional although hopefully it will also help you to hear from other people on here.
 
i know you feel like you want to correct it with surgery but i guarantee you there are plenty of genuine guys out there who will love you for the way you are right now! unfortunately there are a lot of shallow people out there, but there is also a lot of genuine people too :) people who actually understand that no body is perfect, that infact it is the little imperfections that make someone perfect! why waste your money to correct something that really isn't a problem? if you do correct it you may still end up with a shallow man too! use it to your advantage.. if a guy walks out on you because of it he is not someone you want to waste your time with anyway. stick at it, you will come across someone genuine!
 
Mine are more than a cup different. My boyfriend doesn't care. Padding on one side and they look fine. No one even notices.
Sounds like you are looking at the wrong guys, seriously, most guys won't care.
 
I dont think it should matter to the guy unless hes shallow & a shithead. When im with a woman, im with her emotionally & physically & I dont see how something like this would stand in the way of a possible relationship.

Now if the young lady has psychological problems with her looks & it can be fixed fairly easy, hopefully you can get the money for the surgery. To be self confident & have self-esteem is to be truly free.................
 
Wow a guy seriously walked out after the clothes came off because of that? What a shithead.

Try not to let it bother you sweetie, most guys dont care about that type of stuff.
 
Um I suppoose I can stand along side you while getting undressed for your flings, pushing one boob in so its the correct size?
 
Although this is common it can be a sign of hypoestrogenism e.g. low oestrogen.

I'd see a doc' if I was you and talk about it since it is bothering you.
 
^what he said.

I've had this before - it's kinda cute - never ever bothered me.

DnA - just get pregnant and it might even out...chances are it won't though, but at least you'll have a buba! hahaha...

Seriously, for most guys this wouldn't be a big deal.
 
but its like no guy is interested in beeing with me becuase of my uneven boobs. i had a bf for a while, but he left me for some big chested chick. that really dented my confidence, because i used to always feel like i never had to worry since this guy appreciated me for who i am. guess not....
breast surgery is expensive. i could talk to a doc but he wouldnt be able to help me financially, even if i bought him dinner im sure.
It's normal to be asymmetrical. The truth is most guys don't really care. We're just happy to have some boobs, any boobs, that we can get our hands on. If your boyfriend dumped you because of your boobs I would have to say you are better off without the shallow jerk. If you feel that the difference in size is causing you to have problems with your confidence then I would agree that surgery to correct it may be an option but you should also talk to someone about the emotional issues before you seek out surgery. I'm not a fan of breast enlargement surgery or any other cosmetic surgery in general except in cases of disfigurement, burns, etc. You may want to consider augmentation that evens your breast size by making one smaller to match instead of making one or both larger. If cost is an issue there are doctors that will make payment plans and augmentation to reduce the size of one breast may be considerably less expensive than an implant.
 
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