not this again..

well, here i am again..placed in the same situation.

Long story short, i've been living with this chick for nearly 3 months, things were going alright at first, i would work, then go to 'her apt' to sleep, well guess after me doing this for awhile she was kind of getting confused. she was thinking more along the lines of having a relationship with me while i'm living there. since knowing the details of this, i lost my spark in spending time with her, we still talked, only over text or facebook because id come home late(shed be asleep) and has to work in the morning and i'd be asleep(on the couch) so we would never interact much. This started going on the past few weeks, and didn't change much. until the other day when she sent me a text asking if we had time to talk. she texted me saying that the ppl that run the apt that where she lives had called her and told her that they didn't know someone else(me)was living with her, and told her that she has 30days to resolve this or they would evict her. don't really know if she's bullshitting with me about this, or if she's telling the truth. well thats not the point..
the point is i'm out a place to stay again, so i'll be back homeless. fucking hate this shit.
there is some hope, a friend of mine mentioned something about cleaning out a messy room in his basement and let me stay with him. the thing is that the room is messy as fuck, and has a black mold problem, not only that but needs some drywall work. so i'm thinking, i can clean out that room, try and fix things up and make it living able, and go with it. all my friend mentioned was helping to pay for some of the utilities. whcih i can do, i work full time.
i really hope things work out for me,i don't know if i'm 100% about this,my friend was on stimulants when he told me this, i hope he's faithful to his word.
i really hope and pray that this will work out..That i don't wait for the last minute to think of something to do..
since i work with my friend, and have some $ now, maybe i can talk to him about if i pay him some $ for 'rent' to stay on his couch or something until i get the other room cleaned up? he knows i work prettymuch fulltime and would be a good way to help carpool eachother to and from from work.

(i'm writing this inside a mc donalds..)
well lets see what happens next?

 

Um you sleeping at various times at her apartment is like squatting if you are not in a relationship nor want to be. I wouldn't be confused I would tell you to get the fuck out. After 30-60 days of being there daily (or almost), you need to be on the lease in most places. My current husband did not pass the credit check when I added him to the lease 3 months into our relationship. The mgmt company let it slide as I was such a good tenant paying my rent on time and never causing a ruckus (aka complaining about shit).

Doesn't shit work out for you anyway?
Might not always be the best at first but it works out. This time around you have a job and a little money.
You have come a long decent way from when we first conversed online.

 

yea,well i wasn't bad or anything,i think over a period of time we grew further apart. even tho she works mornings and i work nights.it wouldn'tve lasted like this anyway.maybe she was %ust saying that about her lease because she wanted me out.. either way it wasn't working out.
i've talked with a friend of mine that has a place, needs to be cleaned out. i talked to him about rent. i work with the guy and have been for some time now, so he knows i have a %ob. and have some income coming in to pay the utls. he said it was cool, and he was and is in the same position so he's helping me out here.
i'm still technically staying with this girl.i still have some of my stuff over there, she's/the apt ppl,has given me 30 days to find somewhere else to go, or atleast i think so. hopefully i'll have some shit figured out soon. been crashing with my friend. phones been dead so havn't talked to her much. havn't slept at her place 2 days now, was thinking about staying their tonight since i'm on this side of town.she's been cool with it tho. she even told me that i knew that staying with her wasn't forever. she's happy that i'll have a place of my own i'm trying to say.
we'l see, ill keep posted..
thanks for the words PI. yea things workout, for the most part.weather its having to live in shelters,rehabs,halfway houses and even my car.still sucks that i havnt found a steady place in a long time.. and yea i remember our conversation.doesn't seem that long ago does it. wow if i had a nickle.