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pokepoke420

pokepoke420

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I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now. We are equally as crazy about each other, but she is a lot more conservative in terms of sex. She is 24, and has been in 1 8 year relationship, and had sex with 1 guy her entire life. I also was in an 8 year relationship prior to meeting her, and it is something that we started bonding over. We've only had intense make out sessions, and I'm honestly okay with it. I really care for her enough to wait until she's comfortable, it really isn't a big deal. I've done enough crazy shit to last a few life times. I know she is crazy about me - I've never met a woman who is more nurturing, warm, caring, loving like she is toward me, but every time I am with her, something strange happens.

Even on a cold night, I sweat, a lot. We literally both get just, hot, and we won't be fooling around or anything. She said something to me last night that she was "really warm" as I was sitting there almost like I was exercising. We can be driving to dinner and I have to roll the windows down when it's 40 degrees or turn the AC on. My body feels so hot when I'm around her. I tried looking it up on Google and finding information about it, but I can't. Is this what sexual tension is? Has anyone else experienced this? It's so strange, because I've NEVER felt this way around anyone, not even the girl I thought I was going to marry. Can anyone enlighten me? I know it sounds strange, and believe me, I feel strange asking, but this young grasshopper needs some wisdom bestowed upon him :D.
 
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Are you on any medications?

Do you take drugs?

Do you experience an increase in pulse rate while this is occurring?

It may be the material on the bed.

It may be love ?
 
Sexual tension? Nervousness? Overwhelming feeling of...? Body HEAT? Sexual HEAT? Anxiousness?

An increased heart rate could feel like you are just overheating thus the sweat.
 
Maybe something you are both consuming is causing vasoconstriction? Does it happen at her residence perhaps? Maybe the heat ia turned up? Maybe you both just really need to mash your genitals together and your bodies are going to commit suicide by overheating unless you stop letting your brains hold you back from a super stanky fuck sesh.

Just FYI, I am a doctor scientist.
 
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Thank for the replies. I don't use drugs and I'm very healthy. I assume it's a good thing for a girl to make you that nervous then... Keeps you on your toes. I just couldn't figure out why! That does makes sense.
 
Night sweats is a medical condition related to rheumatic fever. It may be related to your sexual tension, but it can also be treated as an inflammatory problem.
 
Have you checked your temperature with a thermometer ?

It may be subjective. Then again it might be something physical.

If you don't check, you won't know whether it's all inside your head.
 
I'm not like that with anyone else, any other time. It is literally only when I am around her. I assume it's just sexual tension haha. I appreciate everyone's input.
 
in the wild when lions feel this way they mount the female and go to town no questions asked. It could be a mix of nerves + excitement + hornyness idk. Keep a cold water bottle in the car for now on.
 
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