As far as X-rated gossipy pics, they go away with time.
Also whoever posted them, you outta check their facebook and see where they work and sue the fuck out of them if they are just a corporate scumbag anyways. Revenge porn is not cool and well, I could easily justify it to myself to sue for money cuz it would set a precedent against revenge porn and believe me its no fun to go through.
With the recent revenge porn laws these people would be happy to go to civil court instead of criminal court.
Anyways, make a new account and just don't add people from your past. Use an alias and if anyone asks why, say you are protecting your privacy which you are.
I don't accept friend request from people I don't know and if there are any red flags then I block the person and if it is someone I know and I will be honest and say the content of their page is something I do not want to be publicly linked to.
When you date be very careful of what the person puts up like gun pics get you on a special list even if you have a ccw, I know this from first hand experience because of my ex gf's page. She had told me she took down the pics but she had not, well that means is if johny law ever pays you a visit, they don't knock. Even if you take the person off your fb page it doesn't matter so as trashy as fb is, it is best to see what type of dumb shit people are doing on there.
I never let anyone tag me in a photo and remove it and block that from happening but I am also pretty careful of who I add and don't hesitate to unfriend. Yeah you can get stalked a bit via fb but don't do shit like post where you go to eat, the IRS might find it interesting as your psycho ex will.
So all that being said, I don't like facebook, don't like how it has changed culture, and don't like how you find out people you are friends with a fucking morons and really need to get off the soap box cuz what they are shouting about is dumb, ignorant, and can get them and their friends grouped in a special database.
Since the patriot act the NSA, CIA, ATF, IRS, and local law enforcement does collect metadata and its kinda like they make lists of potential "threats" and facebook is just an excellent way to fuck up your life.
You are not the only person who revenge porn has happened to and I am a man. It was mainly cheap shots by bitter ex's at women I was seeing but yeah there are photos of me floating around and they were taken without my knowledge from me getting out the shower to my morning wood while I am sleeping to me having intercourse its out there and I didn't take the photos.
It takes a special kind of sick fuck to photograph two people having sex and put it online, but it happened to me and I suppose you as well. The thing is no one cares or talks about it now. It is so in the past now that it doesn't matter but still I know how it feels.
I am still surprised that someone fucking taped me fucking in my car and did see the camera flash but the picture was already uploaded to internet before I could beat the fucker up and he has no money and if he photographed that I would imagine he had something incriminating as well.
The other photos were taken by a girl who was just so proud to be fucking me that she sent it to ALL her female friends. While I am flattered and was in pretty good shape I still would prefer not to have those photos floating around and people still show them to me and those were like 5 years ago so yeah, lame.
I doubt what someone else did will affect me much, I mean if anything I could have pressed charges or sued but it would have brought more attention but if any of these scumbags had any money than I might have sued just cuz of how fucking lame it was and that it did kinda fuck up some good relationships but the damage was already done.
So just select better friends and you don't have to let the whole world know you are on facebook.
If you let those immature a childish things people did get to you, guess what, they win. The best revenge would be to go on with your life.
I can think of all these nasty lil things you could do to the same ppl with the same video if they are in and times in their life when they would really not want that to happen but that is highly criminal and not very mature.
So these people sound like they lived for high school and well prom was their last hurrah and were able to draw about a bit more high school crap with this bullshit.
You moved on, so just keep moving on. I am telling you those photos and videos will go away and they have for me and the women in them.
As for the people who did it to me, well they are pathetic human beings to start with and downright losers and don't take rejection to well as to the point of videotaping who turned them down and who they fucked and as to take photos just to show off having fucked someone.
Says alot more about them then it will say about you. Everyone has sex, don't let somebody shame you for having sex, it is an invasion of privacy sure but what goes around comes around whether or not you feel the need to seek revenge is up to you, I advise against it. I didn't do anything other than tell them they were pathetic.
